The very simplest would be Tailscale (or fully selfhosted: Tailscale clients with Headscale as controlserver).
Or you can run a Wireguard setup, as site-to-site for example between the two networks.
The very simplest would be Tailscale (or fully selfhosted: Tailscale clients with Headscale as controlserver).
Or you can run a Wireguard setup, as site-to-site for example between the two networks.
I recommend you look into restic
which is a incremental backup tool that can end-to-end encryption the store so that you do not need to trust your storage provider.
Restic can also work with a NAS at your friend but it might turn out it is cheaper to get something like a backblaze B2 Cloud or wasabi S3 storage where a terabyte is like around 6$ a month only!
I used to have backblaze, they were ok, I wish I had full access to my files and I prefer to self host and I already have all the hardware. I'll definitely check out restic though. Thanks!
If you do truenas to truenas you could schedule a zfs send.
The remote side won't be truenas unfortunately. Probably just going to use rsync.
A place to share alternatives to popular online services that can be self-hosted without giving up privacy or locking you into a service you don't control.
For Example
We welcome posts that include suggestions for good self-hosted alternatives to popular online services, how they are better, or how they give back control of your data. Also include hints and tips for less technical readers.
Useful Lists