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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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[–] ChristmasIslandZone@lemmy.world 105 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (4 children)

When seatbelts were introduced to cars, there was a big movement against them. Some by car manufacturers to keep costs down, but a lot of backlash was from good ol' natural born idiots so contrarian and averse to change they'd let themselves die just to give a smug look about not doing what someone asked of them. The sort of dumbass who during the height of pre-vaccine Covid would drown in the fluid buildup in their lungs and refuse treatment because doing so would be an admission of fault.

These past 9 years have made me DEEPLY cynical about my fellow man. There is no bottom. No level of malicious stupidity is low enough. It's not even disappointment anymore, I'm resigned to it. Some people are so beyond hope, so beyond redemption, it's like trying to get a fucking deer to recognize itself in a mirror. Just ZERO awareness, no theory of mind, object permanence is a fucking coin flip. If it weren't for my principles, my absolute refusal to engage in dehumanization, I'd be tempted to write them off as another species just to cope with the dissonance that comes from seeing people acting that self destructive. Like it doesn't make sense. You'd expect at some point some form of pattern recognition and harm avoidance to develop. "Hey, putting my hand on the stove hurt. It hurt every time I did it. It hurt everyone I saw someone else do it too. I'm gonna put my hand on the stove and it won't hurt this time.".

[–] Eyedust@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I was annoyed about the seatbelt laws, but I was a little kid at the time. I came from an era of riding in the back of dad's truck and enjoying the breeze. Hell, I went from New England to Canada in the back of a capped truck. I was eight years old and never thought anything of it.

However, as I got older into my teens I got more adamant about using a seat belt, even when the laws were still sorta gray here (you were let off with no warning most times). Now its second nature, even if I'm heading 3 mins to the store. Some people still don't because they think that they're only endangering themselves. Thing is, I have a brother in law that's a first responder. He's seen people torpedo out of windows in head-on collisions and into the other car, injuring the other driver/passengers.

Honestly, I don't get what the whole problem is. You barely even notice them on you. Most people who don't put on a simple and comfortable safety belt are just being fucking stubborn children who don't like being told what to do. I'm glad I grew out of that way of thinking. Some my family are those "good ol' natural borns". They'll tell me I don't have to put my seatbelt on and every time I adamantly say, "I always do". My other brother in law will literally crank the radio so he can't hear the seatbelt alarm. Drives me insane, but I love the idiot.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 5 points 7 hours ago

I hated them as a kid because they were uncomfortable and didn't fit right. My mom made is wear it but I used to put the chest belt behind my back as soon as she turned around because it dug into my neck. I probably should have been in a car seat for way longer than I was. As an adult I don't even notice it.

[–] ceiphas@lemmy.world 4 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (2 children)

There are still people that buy "belt silencers" or sit on their seatbelts to drive without. Newer cars will alarm, and mine even shuts down if you drive without a seatbelt

[–] slaneesh_is_right@lemmy.org 8 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

My sister's boyfriend bought an oldtimer with no seatbelt. The previous owner installed some and he took them out again. I think there is nothing that brings him more joy than to tell people how he doesn't need a seatbelt. He also drives his children around in this deathtrap. But he also refuses to wear a helmet when they ride their ebike. My sister nagged so long about it that he now takes the helmet with him, but he doesn't wear it, that's the compromise they reached. Some people are just fucking weird.

[–] Simulation6@sopuli.xyz 5 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Seen bumper sticker: No air bags, we die like men.

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[–] stembolts@programming.dev 3 points 13 hours ago

I enjoyed reading this. Well put. I also share this recent realization. It's made me feel a bit less imposter syndrome. Among other things.

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[–] Wilco@lemm.ee 78 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

LOL, libs are trying to ban asbestos! They want us all to catch fire! Asbestos causing cancer is a conspiracy, do your own research. Besides, Ivermectin will cure any cancer caused by asbestos.

/s (because the USA is crazy and someone would really post this and mean it)

[–] viking@infosec.pub 22 points 16 hours ago

Post it on reddit, and that will end up as a google AI recommendation next week.

[–] BeardedGingerWonder@feddit.uk 10 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I can see them railing a line of asbestos just to own the libs. Better than vaccine denial I suppose, at least it limits the damage.

[–] Raiderkev@lemmy.world 6 points 15 hours ago

A guy I went to HS with definitely did this one time on a dare. A piece of insulation fell out of the kiln in shop class n another kid smashed it n told this kid he'd give him $5 to snort it. No one thought he would, but this dude absolutely railed it. Someone asks the shop teacher later what the tiles were made of and he says asbestos mostly, but it's fine as long as you don't mess with it. 💀

I keep checking on his Facebook every couple of years to see if lung cancer got him. So far, he's still kicking lol.

[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 12 points 13 hours ago (9 children)

Old car guys are still bitter over unleaded gas. Some will drive to airports to buy the leaded stuff.

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[–] Auzy@aussie.zone 53 points 20 hours ago (5 children)

Here in Australia we just banned engineered stone because it tends to cause silicosis

And yep, lots of shitty business owners whined and a few shit customers on Facebook

Silicosis is what's killing people at the moment, and business owners in particular don't seem to care, despite the fact there's is alternatives

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[–] 467265654C75696769@sh.itjust.works 0 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Because Russia, the number one exporter of asbestoes and the number one disinformation capital of the world.

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[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 43 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

People are just going to have to re-learn just how fucking scary the measles and polio are, I guess.

[–] SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org 12 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

I'm curious if America children dying will weaken the anti vax movement in other countries.

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[–] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 102 points 23 hours ago

I used to live in a city called Asbestos, the mine was closed back in 2012 and older folks are still angry about it, they'll even tell you that the workers handling it weren't in worse health than anyone else in the city... The worst part is that it was banned in the construction industry 30 years prior, so they kept exploiting the mine only to export it to countries that hadn't banned it, even if it meant killing people there...

[–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 47 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

There's still some pro-asbestos people, so it didn't go away 100%. I remember reading a completely mental Conservapedia article blaming 9/11 on not using asbestos.

[–] chaogomu@lemmy.world 25 points 20 hours ago

That was Rush Limbaugh, may he rot in piss.

[–] Reygle@lemmy.world 29 points 20 hours ago

People would be making TikTok videos eating asbestos and cramming it up their bums claiming it cures COVID

[–] MTK@lemmy.world 72 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (5 children)

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[–] Phoenicianpirate@lemm.ee 2 points 10 hours ago

And also you wash it down with radithor! The healthfully radioactive water.

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 12 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

It actually was just recently (a year ago) banned fully in the US. Before that, it was just prohibited to be used in new construction.

[–] TON618@lemmy.world 3 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (2 children)

What do you mean with fully banned in this example?

Pretty sure here in Europe there are also still plenty of cases where you're not forced to remove asbestos, like inaccessible old plumbing that's embedded in the utility shafts of apartment blocks. So it's also not fully banned here yet either, in that sense.

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[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 80 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (29 children)

I’m in a comment war with a nicotine denialist on here now!

In the 90s, there were still tons of people angry about seat belt laws. It’s every American’s God Given Right to fly out of the windshield and probably kill someone else.

[–] Angry_Autist@lemmy.world 20 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

If it didn't cause cancer, asbestos is a fucking miracle material, there are people TODAY who are hugely pro-asbestos

[–] CoffeeJunkie@lemmy.cafe 5 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

People have been pro-asbestos dating back to Roman times, and even back then it is said they knew it was harmful as well. But used it anyway. 😆

[–] slaneesh_is_right@lemmy.org 4 points 9 hours ago

I mean you do have to wright in thr pros and cons. Like asbestos is crazy good in what it does. if you have it in your building and don't fuck with it, it doesn't matter. I'm not some pro asbestos nut or anything, but they banned asbestos because of health concers, but smoking and alvohol is still fine, which has absolutely no positive side effects

[–] dantheclamman@lemmy.world 40 points 23 hours ago (4 children)

In fact, the industry did sue and win a lawsuit in 1991 narrowing the range of asbestos compounds banned by the EPA. There have always been huge waves of resistance to every harmful compound banned by the government, from leaded gas to cigarettes to chlorofluorocarbons that harmed the ozone layer. The difference is that the present consolidation of wealth in the hands of a small group of billionaires, who control a consolidating group of media corporations, allows for unprecedented ability to control public opinion. Meanwhile, the amount of junk information floating around in social media, and failing public education, has disordered our systems of discourse. There is much more limited ability to vet quality sources of information, leaving people to worry more about fictional chemtrails than about the very real pesticides in their food

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[–] ptz@dubvee.org 166 points 1 day ago (4 children)
[–] UltraMagnus0001@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

Russia has a town named after asbestos and lobbies for asbestos.

[–] AdamEatsAss@lemmy.world 82 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Asbestos was used because of it's flame retardation and it's easy to make. Provided it's properly encapsulated and does not become damaged risk can be mitigated. Preventing damage is the hard part, no one plans for a tree to fall on their house. Maybe if everyone just wears a air mask all the time we wouldn't have to worry about it.

[–] Monument@lemmy.sdf.org 72 points 1 day ago (9 children)

The mask really gets in the way of eating ass, though.

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[–] callouscomic@lemm.ee 74 points 1 day ago (2 children)

In 2018, the U.S. idiot-in-chief tried to bring it back again.

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[–] SolidShake@lemmy.world 124 points 1 day ago (39 children)

Depends who would ban it. From my life experience, we have one side that definitely would because they get mad at anything the other side. ANYTHING. While the other side is typically more rational and has critical thinking skills.

[–] Katana314@lemmy.world 36 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I have heard that Obama supports breathing.

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