Sounds like diverging interests to me. It's like you're trying to be part of a group that wants to chat about a topic that doesn't interest you, and your topics don't interest them. It's like if I walk into the Smash (a game on Switch) club and ask if anyone wants to play Mario Party. Of course most of the club members will ignore and dismiss me, and it has nothing to do with relationships with other club members.
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That makes sense, you broke up and they're her friends ... they probably feel partial to her and not you, right?
I think most people sorta move on from friends of the person they broke up with for this reason.
i looked through your post history a little, i know it might be hard considering whatever feelings you may have had for her but i think it's better if you just leave the group chat, block her, and move on. i'd take a break from dating for a while as well, and focus on your friendships and those who really care about you in your life. you deserve to have better friendships and relationships rather than seeking validation from your terrible sounding exes and stangers on lemmy. it's probably not a good idea to post about all of this online anyway. you're still in high school. do your homework, give your mom a hug, go outside for a bit, it's nice out today. it'll be alright.