My siblings, Dipshit and Dipshit, know all about this. ๐
One Dipshit is transfem and is "fine" being called Dipshit; just don't deadname her.
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Don't be mean. I promise to do my best to judge that fairly.
My siblings, Dipshit and Dipshit, know all about this. ๐
One Dipshit is transfem and is "fine" being called Dipshit; just don't deadname her.
I understand the desire to have people use your pronouns, and as long as one can see what gender you are "presenting", one should use those pronouns.
If someone prefers other pronouns, then I'm sorry... Many people (me included) have a hard time remembering names... I wouldn't have a chance remembering a large set of different pronouns if I can't even remember the names of that person. A pronoun is a non specific way of addressing someone and a break life saver like "you"...
To to switch to an all inclusive them/they for everybody seems overreaching.
If it's not obvious what pronouns someone prefers, then they shouldn't be annoyed if someone makes repeatedly mistakes.
And this makes it hard to distinguish a mistake from an insult...
If the same person repeatedly makes the same mistake after being corrected it's fair to think that person might be an asshole.