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What is this outside of which you speak?

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[–] Donkter@lemmy.world 10 points 5 hours ago

Be like me and start reading on your phone. Then instead of pretending to be on your phone to avoid awkwardness you get super invested in whatever you're reading and now you're genuinely annoyed when someone walks up to talk or the thing you're waiting for happens.

[–] Asafum@feddit.nl 7 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I'm so bad I do it in video games ... There's a game where you can open up a menu that displays to other players so I open that up when I'm on transit systems so I don't have to deal with the annoying "look at me look at me look at meeeeeee" annoying people lol

[–] sit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

What game are you playing where you have to drive public transit ☹️

[–] Asafum@feddit.nl 2 points 4 hours ago

Star citizen lol

When you go down to a major city you land your ship in a hangar and then take the transit system into the city to shop or whatever. It's actually pretty cool, it makes visiting a major city into a bit of a trip.

Same but I haven’t been in a public space since early 2020. Sort of living the dream

[–] scytale@lemm.ee 4 points 6 hours ago

That's me attending vendor-sponsored happy hours for the free food and drinks.

[–] Nougat@fedia.io 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Seems like just sitting alone in a restaurant without looking at a phone would make you seem even weirder and more unapproachable.

[–] otacon239@lemmy.world 7 points 5 hours ago

Believe it or not, I’ve eaten a whole meal alone at a restaurant without looking at my phone and I wasn’t even escorted out.

[–] Character_Locked@lemm.ee 1 points 5 hours ago

See also: Earphones. I may on occasion ignore people trying to talk to me even if I can hear them lol.