She (somewhat jokingly?) told my family that she didn't want kids at thanksgiving. Everyone (including her) knows that I want kids. She had been somewhat indecisive in the past, but it became clear to me that our long-term goals didn't align. We talked about it and eventually broke up.
Way to go!
No reason to continue if you don't gain more than what you lose.
Many ladies have asked, why I don't want kids. At this point I just copy-paste my PROS&CONS -list to them ๐ (I made a list during one short relationship where she wasn't sure, does she want kids)
I am happy I found a lady that tilts towards not wanting kids (I know the opinion can change, but she's already in an age where it gets difficult to get kids anymre).
When she dumped me.
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