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Raines created a successful YouTube channel dedicated to her advocacy efforts rescuing foxes from fur farms.

Animal rescue activist and YouTube star Mikayla Raines has died by suicide, according to her husband. She was 29.

Ethan Raines announced her death in an emotional video he posted to her YouTube channel on Monday.

He said that for years his wife suffered from various mental health issues and struggled to cope with online criticism.

"She couldn’t bear what she was feeling any longer, and she ended her life," he said. "And it breaks my heart that someone who is selfless and devoted her life to animals could have so much negativity pointed at her."

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[–] Naevermix@lemmy.world 3 points 23 hours ago
[–] Zahille7@lemmy.world 38 points 1 day ago

No, this was the SaveAFox person... This is like hearing if The Girl With The Dogs were to suddenly die tomorrow. I'm not sure I could handle so much good leaving the world so quickly.

They had been posting fundraising updates on their YouTube for the last couple weeks. I hope they can keep it going.

[–] dil@lemmy.zip 13 points 1 day ago (4 children)

It was a redditor, they also posted how proud they were, I posted a screnshot but ppl tweaked at me for using reddit and I deleted it rather than argue

[–] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 1 points 18 hours ago

Idk why. If it was the same person, the information is relevant to the discussion.

I'm happy to know that they were proud of what they were doing. I hope it was a light in their life.

It's terrible that anyone would hold any hate for someone trying to do the kind of work she was doing.

[–] HiddenLychee@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Lemmy people are weird. Can you link/show me this person?

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[–] Gammelfisch@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

Another reason why the US healthcare system sucks shit.

[–] KyuubiNoKitsune@lemmy.blahaj.zone 39 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I believe she had BPD as well, which in itself often gets you targeted harassment online while also making you extremely sensitive to said harassment.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (7 children)

Wait what? People harass people online because they've got BPD? Like they specifically target people who are suffering from BPD? Why??

Fucking gross.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 3 points 1 day ago (4 children)

No, people don't specifically look for people with BPD. I believe you misunderstood.

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[–] KeenFlame@feddit.nu 2 points 1 day ago

Well, it is unfortunately symptomatic. Lived with one for 10 years. Gave everything. It is not easy to admit that most of the even self aware sufferers will automatically manipulate and stir up drama due to the impossible weight of their own guilt and anger which if you want to help you have to realise is never going away and more often than not continually hurt anyone around them. It's sad that giving energy and help to sufferers is so draining and destructive and if you want support many people react like you. Except in support groups. So if anyone is reading : take care of yourself first, giving more than you have is bad for everyone and it will be hard not to. Support groups are your friend as many that are in the same situation sharing and understanding is deeply important to survive

[–] KyuubiNoKitsune@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Because hurt people hurt people.

People with BPD can be very manipulative and controlling, they can leave you with your own psychological trauma if they're not self aware enough to realise what they're doing. And some people are just evil and don't try be better. So there are a lot of people who have been hurt by people with BPD and they then become a target for harassment.

Sad part is that most people with BPD just want to be loved. Unfortunately they can't trust love or anyone around them. It's fucked and really hard to manage, but possible with a lot of hard work.

[–] chaotic_altruist@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago

I've been hurt a lot by people with BPD. I have provided a lot of emotional (and financial) support only to eventually be taken for granted and/or abused. Some people with BPD can be absolute monsters.

It's taken years of therapy and self healing to understand how they're hurting too and seriously don't understand how they're hurting others sometimes.

Just wish more people could learn to not lash out when they're hurt and seek healing. It's hard regardless if you've got BPD, PTSD, or whatever, but it's always the right way to go. Everyone deserves respect and understanding.

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[–] Ulvain@sh.itjust.works 19 points 1 day ago (12 children)

I don't know her at all - is that BPD diagnosis something confirmed, thet she shared and all?

I have terribly mixed feelings about people with BPD.

On one side, lots of empathy: they often feel miserable and (not always, but) very often their BPD is the result of trauma or abuse.

On the other, and having lived it for a decade and a half: they can make the lives of people in their surroundings an absolute abominable horror-movie type of nightmare.

It's actually treatable but not all people with BPD seek treatment, it's a tough one.

[–] faercol@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 22 hours ago

Yeah, her husband shared it when he announced the news on Tuesday (or Monday?).

[–] jim_v@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

There just aren't enough therapists learning how to administer dialectical behavior therapy. Very helpful for people with BPD, addiction problems, or PTSD.

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[–] gwilikers@lemmy.ml 55 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I would also like to add another perspective.

I think its important to bear in mind that there are plenty of examples of animal rights and environmental organisations that have been the target of harrasment campaigns bankrolled by corporate and political interests.

I'm not suggesting this is what happened here. I think we have to scrutinize any possible conspiracy -- I really want to make that clear. If you look through the other comments, there's a lot to delve through here.

But I would suggest bearing in mind that smear campaigns aimed at cultivating a kind of political nihilism is something that does happen.

The best you can do, if you care about these causes, is to continue to support them in whatever ways you can.

In my opinion, all animals deserve a hell of a lot better than this.

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[–] Handmaid@lemmy.zip 65 points 2 days ago (5 children)

As a long time SaveAFox fan, Mikayla's death is crushing. This is a woman that deeply deeply cared for animals selflessly her entire life.

The internet has no shame and has become a truly abhorrent place.

[–] aeternum@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago

yeah, but can you imagine caring about others? No thanks.

In all seriousness, I've never heard of Mikayla before, but this is a big loss for the animals. She saved 150 foxes that would have been killled if she didn't rescue them. Why can't we all just get along??

[–] Itdidnttrickledown@lemmy.world 37 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

It was reddit. Reddit is dead center of this.

Edit: its amazing how being correctly identifying reddit as the culprit is downvoted on lemmy when its clear most of us are here because reddit sucks a skunks ass.

[–] based_raven@lemm.ee 26 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Proof? Not that I'm saying you're wrong, I'm just not familiar with this lady at all so would like to know more.

[–] Eyedust@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

There was a whole subreddit called "r/SaveAfoxSnark" that went private after the news came out. One reddit mod there got doxxed, panicked, and deleted their whole reddit history.

Edit: The mod's reddit handle is/was KazeoLion. There are only quotes here about this, so take it all with a grain of salt until we know more. These are YouTube comments:

MappleBunny 13 hours ago One of the people responsible for the bullying is a reddit user by the name of KazeoLion, who has since been doxxed and had to delete most of his reddit posts (which are still available in the wayback machine), he even made a post where he doubled down on his actions.

We will neither forgive nor forget. Rest in peace Mikayla


bluebowser3347 21 hours ago There was a whole subreddit called r/SaveAfoxSnark that was dedicated to bullying and harassing Mikayla. The moment the news came out that she had killed herself the subreddit switched to private.

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[–] Foxfire@pawb.social 36 points 1 day ago

As a long time supporter of SaveAFox, it's hard to really even process this. I am sure being an online personality to try and fundraise isn't easy, but never did I dream that there was such a degree of hate lobbed at Mikayla that she'd decide to end her own life. Someone so kind and devoted to the lives of creatures who are constantly exploited and cannot save themselves. It's just despicable, and all I can really hope for is that Mikayla's mission continues on in spite of such significant loss.

[–] xiwi@lemmy.dbzer0.com 68 points 2 days ago (25 children)

Why the fuck would you harass someone for saving foxes? Is it because she's a woman?

[–] Bytemeister@lemmy.world 28 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

God gave us dominion over all creatures read the Bible!

There are children dying in the streets here, why don't you do anything about them?

The foxes bread for fur here are not capable of living in the wild, "rescuing" and releasing them is the real animal abuse.

I think fox fur is fancy, fuck you lady!

Just some examples I can think of off the top of my head. People can get pretty polarized when it comes to killing, or not killing animals.

[–] aeternum@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago (4 children)

isn't it stupid?

If you kill cats and dogs, you're a sociopath. But when you kill foxes, that's fine.

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This one hits me hard. So sad. So goddamn sad. Seeing her and those foxes really cheered me up. Her death just stabs me right through the heart.

[–] wanderwisley@lemm.ee 101 points 2 days ago (13 children)

It is a sad state of affairs when a person is doing something actually good to help animals and they get harassed. May her legacy live on forever.

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[–] Jerb322@lemmy.world 200 points 2 days ago (7 children)

How hollow that must feel. Not getting any justice or retribution.

And the disgusting people to blame are probably praising themselves, now.

RIP

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