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i'm dating this girl i was friends with and i don't regret it (thelemmy.club)

submitted 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) by nonBInary@thelemmy.club to c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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If I ever break up with her (which I hope i won't), i will take a break from dating for a while, but we're giving each other exactly what we need and want and things are going great!

my ex was talking about how we didn't REALLY know each other, but since i've been friends with this girl already, i feel really happy.

we've already kissed!

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[–] superweeniehutjrs@lemmy.world 15 points 6 days ago (1 children)

My wife and I were friends for a long time before we dated. I like to think we are still friends

[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

If your partner isn't also your best friend, you're doing it wrong.

[–] voytek709@lemmy.ca 6 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Precisely! My girlfriend is my best friend

[–] irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone 7 points 6 days ago

I'm still friends with many of my exes because I formed good friendships with them either before or during relationships. It's only the toxic typical straight, monogamous relationship dogma that says we have to stop caring for and start hating people we care about when we're no longer romantically involved and so romance and friendship need to be separate so a breakup doesn't mean losing your best friend. Friendship is the bedrock of all of my relationships since I learned that regardless of their or my gender (I'm pansexual, though).