I wonder if maga people are having the exact same, conversation about there parents becoming leftists.
this post was submitted on 02 Oct 2025
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Are they twits? A twit is someone who cant process more than 512 characters at once.
I haven't talked to my mom since before trump even ran for president so.
Sorry for your loss
Not quite fascist but voting for the most right party there is.
Luckily I don't live there so I don't have to deal with it.
βIf everyone who understands the seriousness of the situation were to become more involved, then we would have all the people we need. We need to mobilize our friends, not convert our opponents.β
~ Rebecca Solnit
Great quote, do you know what she wrote that in?
No, I got it from someone quoting it on some talk or podcast. Tried to low-effort-verify it but couldn't. So I just rolled with it. :)
Why are people surprised that their parents are fascists? My parents have always been obvious christian fascists with a notable amount of local influence in their cult. My dad unironically relished "arbeit macht frei" when we went to Dachau. My patrilineage is an impressive pedigree of anti-communism backed with service in American wars. My grandfather privately referred to POC as savages until his death. Perhaps my experience is more unique than I believe, but I refuse to be naive.
I have broken relations with my family in part because of all this. Also because they hate my chosen family and I won't tolerate it. I feel no responsibility to save them or correct them. I respect their very intentional decision to be monsters and hope they can be stopped asap. They are evil. They have always been evil.
It is VERY difficult to imagine there not being glaring red flags. This may be a result of my own baggage, but I am immediately skeptical of those who are blindsided by their family's ideology. I fear many of you who are surprised would be shocked to know my family has always known that your family would belong to the imperial cause eventually. My family is not so obtuse as to believe they are any different now than they were during Clinton, 9/11, or the Tea Party, but somehow others give their own family a pass?
I am equally skeptical of numerous cliches used by ostensibly "leftist" folks including the use of problematic language or the reduction/commodification of identities. If you ironically say "neurospicy" for example, I assume you are willing to betray disabled people for your own gain. If you use "gay" as an insult, regardless of your identity, I will see you as my enemy. Period. These times will not reward naivety.
I try to ignore them. Live my own life