"Not gonna lie..." Uh, good, I guess
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People who start sentences with "I mean,". It makes you sound like a contrarian or pedantic prick.
I mean, the other turn of phrase I hate is "living my/your/our/their best life". It's just cringe to me for some reason.
Agree, they are rarely clarifying what they mean. Useless filler like "literally"
when I hear the phrase "rustles my jimmies" it really, well...
Everyone started saying “That really grinds my gears” for a couple of years and then it just went away again.
I've heard that one since I was a kid, but yeah it did kinda drop off.
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Haven't heard it much but I do like it
oh no
“It is what it is.”
It infuriates me because it is usually said by a person so mentally lazy that they are causing problems for others. You can’t say it is what it is unless you can tell me what ‘it’ is!
It’s not ‘acceptance’, it’s spiritual bypassing at best and it makes me want to puke.
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I don't often use it but I like the word "eh?!", it's funny to me the way it sounds
Y'all
Most forms of slang have a bit of that experience for me. The whole point of language is an attempt to make it possible to transfer information from one person to another. If someone is going to intentionally obscure what they are saying, they're just being an asshole, making other people do mental work, either so they don't have to ('So I was, like, mluh' instead of 'I felt angry for being mistreated.') or just to assert dominance. (using heavily obscurant slang their friend group came up with outside of the group, 'totes mcgrotes crackin' being used to mean 'very horny')
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Stand up. As in we have to stand up to fight this or that.