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submitted 10 months ago by Ghostalmedia@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I feel like things on Lemmy were pretty chill several months ago, and that’s started to change.

People used to talk each other like they would talk to a neighbor. Now I get the sense that people have become quick to be negative, attack, and not be constructive.

Am I crazy in feeling like the vibe has changed?

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[-] Yoz@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago

That's just normal behavior of human beings.

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[-] mortrek@lemmy.ml 5 points 10 months ago

Aggressive yes, and more people deliberately misinterpreting what you say just to feel smug. Also people that don't understand that a Lemmy comment can't have the exhaustive detail and context of a Wikipedia article, and they take any omission of such in a comment as ignorance by the op.

[-] TigrisMorte@kbin.social 5 points 10 months ago

Simply a side effect of successful user growth without adequate growth in moderation of the user base. Same thing has happened on every forum since the first BBS

[-] snausagesinablanket@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

Especially the grammar Nazis that floated here on a turd from the reddit cesspool.

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[-] Aradia@lemmy.ml 4 points 10 months ago

When they are insulting should mean that they have no arguments... maybe they have issues on their life. Who knows, but it's a waste of time to reply to them.

[-] rab@lemmy.ca 4 points 10 months ago

Yeah I've given this place an honest try but people are so quick to downvote, it's not exactly encouraging me to actively post here

Also I notice the same 10 assholes in every thread

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[-] Omega_Haxors@lemmy.ml 4 points 10 months ago

A couple days ago someone was trying to debatebro me I told them to eff off and that I wasn't going to humor their bad-faith ass.

Was expecting to get hate for it but instead woke up to 20 votes on the comment. It's awesome.

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[-] clearleaf@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

Not just the comments. It used to be page 4 or 5 where the hate/rage content would start appearing in the top posts. But it's been creeping up, and now even page 1 looks pretty bad sometimes. I bet even Americans are starting to feel alienated if they're not perpetually angry.

[-] iAvicenna@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I kinda started getting that feeling too but I thought that was because I started getting more involved in discussions and political ones more. Before it was mainly quick comments for me. Anyways if someone starts to insult or deliberately distort what I am saying by cherry picking combinations of words from my comments, I put on my "three words at most troll hat" and the discussion dies pretty quickly. No point in writing a paragraph for a comment if the other person is just gonna take one word out of it and bash the rest with it.

[-] nutsack@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

every time I see a full page meme in the middle of a comments thread I want to punch a hole right through its face

[-] replicat@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago

Yeah tbh image embeds were a mistake IMO.

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