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[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 3 days ago

we are crazy :3 its great, would recommend

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

celebrations is fine but lets refrain from posting actual gore, cwed or no

no promises the admins wont get this post though

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

given you were drunk making sure you actually ordered it from a reputable source is probably a good idea

there a list of them over on https://hrtcafe.net/Estrogen/estradiol_injections.html

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

please do not use 18g needles for drawing, you will destroy your vial. additionally while you can switch the needle theres really no need to (see insulin needles, they are fixed), but also no reason not to. 25g basically guarantees coring is not a problem.

they recommend 18g in regular healthcare stuff because its standard practice and you arent expected to be using a vial more than a few times, diy vials last significantly longer than prescription ones (though prescription ones also last a very long time and the "use by" date or whatever they have on them is bullshit 99% of the time)

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

a majority of doctors dont know shit about trans healthcare, and have proven they will recommend dangerous uninformed regimens. if you can find a good doctor thats great, if its safe to see one its better to. the "if you cant" clause really shouldnt be there, you should inform yourself on your healthcare period, doctor or no, its the only way to properly advocate for yourself (especially as a trans person). and as a trans person living in the US, it is not in any way shape or form safe to seek out trans healthcare given the current state of things (honestly this goes for like... a majority of the world atm, and even if you can get trans healthcare its not reliable or stable)

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 weeks ago

lemmy.world accounts acting like jerks

many such cases

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 weeks ago

waow (basedbasedbased)

 
[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 45 points 1 month ago

dis is rlly sweet omgosh

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago

we are trans and we love being trans and even though its harder we wouldnt want it any other way

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

ur a good girl :3

 
 
 

had the old 196 blocked, might stick around with this one. mods seem much better.

 

Bunch of random resources people may find useful, will update this post as new resources come along. Mostly from Reddit, any posts have been uploaded as PDFs to read.

[ A Mixture of Different Resources ]

[ Some useful Videos from Trans Voice Lessons ]

https://www.youtube.com/@TransVoiceLessons/videos Channel link.

https://youtu.be/oWmj73Ttp4E Learn to hear size/resonance better

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fylIX28mlyY Practice advice

https://youtu.be/rvet1PwCoGY An ear training live stream

https://youtu.be/imdM3Cea4NA Voice surgery live stream

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gHyVNIcw_XI some common myths

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/trans_voice_help@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

A 261 page book going over voice training. May be helpful to some. Link if you can't access it from the post.

 
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Reaching Out For Help (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 7 months ago) by 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

After much consideration and fighting with my brain, I've decided that it's okay to ask for help in hard situations. So, I'm making this in hope that I receive at least a little bit of help. I'm asking for money, friends, and any advice you can give me. Everything counts and will help me during this rather terrible time. I'm Uni (name TBD) and I'm a 16 y/o transgirl unfortunately situated in the USA. You may know me as a regular on the Blahaj Matrix chats going by "Miss Universe".

So a little bit (a lot?) of backstory to sort of explain my current situation. My egg cracked October last year and it was both the best and worst thing that has happened in my life so far. Being a minor means that I can't really do anything about the fact that my egg cracked, I'm fully relying on the people around me to help me (which has failed). Put simply, as a minor I have absolutely no control over my body or my life, I have no money, no experience, and nowhere to go.

I came out to my mother and step-father (my parents are divorced) February this year, and while they seemed to be supportive at first they semi-recently turned on me and have been mostly unsupportive since then.

As for my father and step-mother, they are both actively transphobic republicans. I have no plans on coming out to them until after I turn 18, and it would be unsafe to do so before then.

Basically, as of now I have basically no support from anybody in my life and I'm completely trapped as my dysphoria gets worse with each passing day.

With my situation sort of explained(?), why am I actually here? Pretty much I'm here because I need money. Money for clothes, makeup, just stuff that can hopefully help me alleviate some of my dysphoria until I'm able to afford to do so myself (which as a minor is difficult). And also I suppose gas, in case it comes to it and I need to run away, even for a short period. I'm also looking for advice, I don't really know what to do and it would be really nice to have at least some semblance of what I could be doing right now.

I don't really know if any of that made sense, I'm bad at organizing my thoughts and even worse at asking for help. If you have any questions post them in the comments and I can probably answer them.

You can support me here on Buy Me a Coffee if you so wish, and/or with advice in the comments. Every donation counts.

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