Edwardrotik

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[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 3 months ago

Oh, absolutely a demand.

The problem is that it's a very complicated thing, and that means you can't just gonna someone willing, they have to have the experience and skill as well, or it's going to end up bad.

It really isn't something most doms are into as their own kink. Picking up the "tricks if the trade" means having to spend your own time learning something instead of having fun for your own ends, if it isn't also your kink. That's as rare as finding a dom that has the kink tbh.

Back when I participated in the local scene, the feminization side of things was fairly rare, and not part of what most bdsm groups did when they met.

That being said, it can be fun to take part in, even if it isn't your kink. I have done scenes with sissies before, and while it isn't something I would want to do regularly, particularly if it involves sexual intercourse (be it oral or anal), even that is fine for the occasional bit of experimentation to get out of the comfort zone.

That's where most doms I've known stand on it. It's not their main focus because it really is a focus for a sissy. If you aren't doing that part of dominance, they tend to not be fulfilled by a session. It's kind of like pony play in that regard, you have to specialize in it to really get anything out of it long term.

But be patient. Be willing to communicate well with any potential dom so that there's no crossed wires. Doms that aren't used to the feminization genre of play can make mistakes that are easy to avoid if they're talked out in detail ahead of time. The few times I did it, I was lucky enough that the sissies I was playing with were very experienced and let me know what they needed rather than expecting me to magically know the ins and outs of it all. I know that breaks some of the immersion, but until you find a long term partner, that's the only way to go.

It comes down to the demand being much higher than the supply.

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Well, you don't have to be having sex with a guy to see his cock. Don't even need that to see his hard cock.

You just have to enjoy or be willing to be present when men are going to be present, naked, and possibly aroused.

Which is a long way of saying that I rarely have had sex with men, I don't enjoy it. But I've seen a lot of cocks, aroused or otherwise.

I was a nurse for a long time, and I enjoy group sex and orgies, as well as group bdsm.

Yes, some of them can be quite surprising. All kinds of sizes, angles, and colors. They can bend into very unusual arcs as well.

There was a gentleman at a party that was fairly long, fairly narrow, but it bent three times, almost into an § shape, like a double S. He called it his literal trouser snake.

There's all kinds of colors that can surprise you until you learn that they can happen. Very bright blues and purples for sure, but also greens and oranges. It isn't going to be an all-over coloration most of the time; the majority is going to be shades of brown to pale colors. But I have seen a few cocks that were a dusky purplish blue on the shaft, building to blues and purples on the head. It's all about the combination of melanin and blood under the surface to make the light refract and reflect in interesting ways.

They can be very lumpy sometimes as well. Football (american type) shaped is not super rare, and having bulges is common enough that it ceases to be startling after a while.

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 4 months ago

Because he's showing off instead of serving the visuals.

The awkward position, exaggerated movements (that don't serve his coperformer), and strange angle all combine to make the scene look more like a demonstration of how not to have sex than an engaging and arousing sex act.

Plus, it changes the visibility of the female performer. Which isn't going to be a problem for everyone, there's people that watch hetero porn for the male performers, and that's great. But it does detract from the hetero viewing experience as well as making the scene itself ineffective (or less effective) as porn.

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 4 months ago (2 children)

That's one of those situations where the male performer is trying to show off and ruins what would otherwise be a great scene

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 4 months ago

That is an amazing photo, just from an artistic perspective

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It is to keep repeating the same thing over and over despite it being patently absurd

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 5 months ago (3 children)

You're talking to the wrong person with that. The comment you responded to was from a different user. Check the user names.

And I'm fairly certain at this point that the other user is right, you're either trolling or mentally disturbed

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 5 months ago (5 children)

Yeah, you're putting words in his mouth. You misread, or misunderstood, but you're way off the mark

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 7 months ago

Such a delicate set of inner labia.

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 8 months ago

Ugly? I dunno, seems inaccurate

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 1 year ago

I'm always okay with dick pics in theory, at least in places for general nsfw use like this.

That being said, it's really difficult to get interesting pics of your own dick. There's too many limitations of angle, even using a mirror. It's definitely possible with some planning and creativity, but penises are harder to self photograph than vulvae. At least and be flattering. If you don't mind meh results, you can get easy pics.

Yours is a decent shot tbh. Lighting is decent, the angle is good, and it isn't just a dick with no background. But you'd still probably benefit from a camera bro getting the shots for you. I'm not even joking, if you're lucky enough to have a friend that's chill about nudity, you can get way better pics that will actually turn people on, or (in the case of folks that aren't into dick sexually) be artistically interesting.

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