[-] Fosheze@lemmy.world 9 points 16 hours ago

My first dates generally start with coffee then turn into a walk in the park if things are going well. A coffee shop is also just a convient place to meet. But I guess that is also going to depend on city layout.

[-] Fosheze@lemmy.world 1 points 16 hours ago

Federal or state government owns it depending on the park. And the fee is mainly just to pay for maintenance on the parking area. No one is chatging you to go to yellowstone or the grand canyon. They are charging you to park there or use some special service like guides, campgrounds, or picnic areas. Generally speaking though you can just walk onto any national park without paying anything. Yellowstone is a bit of a special case in certain areas because they really don't want people wandering around off trail because they're lible to fall through the ground into a hot spring that will melt their skin off before they get a chance to even scream and then the park rangers need to spend time dredging what little is left of them out of the hot spring. So those areas generally charge people to use the raised wooden trails because of maintenance costs. But at most parks no one is going around checking people for passes. They're only checking vehicles.

Also the costs are very low if you're paying at the park. You can also buy an anual pass to literally every US national park for $80. If you're a senior then you can get a lifetime pass for $80 and an anual pass for $20. There are also all sorts of ways to get those for even more discounted prices.

[-] Fosheze@lemmy.world 4 points 17 hours ago

Some people just come across as flirty. It usually isn't deliberate and if you mistakenly interpret it as flirting that's fine. Just don't get all butthurt about it when it turns out they weren't flirting with you like OP and then it's no harm no foul.

[-] Fosheze@lemmy.world 35 points 17 hours ago

Coffee is a great first date if you met on a dating app. It's a public location where you can both meet in person for the first time and chat but neither of you is forced to stay if things aren't shaping up how you expected.

But if you already know each other then yeah, coffee isn't much of a date.

[-] Fosheze@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

Hydroponic tomatos are cheap, big, and never have any flavor. Those are what most fastfood uses.

[-] Fosheze@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

I would hate to be the person in charge of squeegeeing the presidential couch after vance gets his hands on it.

[-] Fosheze@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago

but for the missing appendage.

If you cant grow your own, storebought is fine.

[-] Fosheze@lemmy.world 23 points 4 days ago

Prostate exams actually aren't recommended for most people anymore. It turns out they weren't great at catching prostate cancer anyways. Now they only recomend them if you actually have a family history of prostate cancer or other risk factors.

But also I don't think this is refering to pegging being a prostate exam. I'm fairly certain it's refering to the fact that some studies have shown that regular prostate stimulation slightly reduces the risk of prostate cancer.

[-] Fosheze@lemmy.world 12 points 4 days ago

Pretty sure its just another name for a game of cribbage.

[-] Fosheze@lemmy.world 26 points 4 days ago

Where in the USA are you going. Saying you're going to the USA is like saying you're going to europe. There's a vast difference between the different states and regions within those states.

[-] Fosheze@lemmy.world 13 points 4 days ago

Everything is a fuse if your current is high enough.

[-] Fosheze@lemmy.world 65 points 5 days ago

Why does a period tracking app even need to store the data anywhere other than locally?

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MOXO Test (lemmy.world)
submitted 1 week ago by Fosheze@lemmy.world to c/adhd@lemmy.world

So I've suspected I have ADHD for a while now. The symptoms just fit plus both my mom and brother have it so I've got a pretty strong family history.

I finally got in to see a psychiatrist and they agree that I likely have ADHD. They had me take an online test called MOXO. I won't be seeing my psych for about another week and a half and I'm assuming that's when I get my actual results. But it feels like I did way too well on it.

Has anyone here taken that test and how did you feel you did on it when you took it?

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by Fosheze@lemmy.world to c/whatisthisthing@lemmy.world

Edit: Answer - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Allium_tuberosum

I've been letting this grassy plant slowly take over my yard and I haven't been able to actually identify it. It has white flowers in late summer that bumble bees absolutely love. It smells like onions when you cut it and it tastes like onion as well except maybe slightly more mild.

Location: SE Minnesota

Not flowering:

Seeding out:

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by Fosheze@lemmy.world to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

How are you supposed to decide where to get care for emergent conditions? Where is the dividing line between "just book a clinic visit", "head into urgent care when you get a chance", and "go inmediately to the ER"?

So this is a question I've always struggled with and it makes me feel very dumb especially because I literally am a EMR. This feels like something I should know. But at the same time I have also called to book a clinic visit before and had the scheduler tell me to go to the ER immediately only for it to wind up being nothing.

Certain things are obvious of course. Like if I need stitches or there is other major trauma then I know to go to the ER. If it is something like a concerning infection then I know urgent care can sort me out. For a skin rash that's probably a clinic visit. If urgent care is closed and it can't wait then default to the ER. But there are also the issues where I genuinely don't know on what side of the line they should fall. This is especially an issue for things that have been going on for a while which I know could be severe but almost certainly aren't.

For example (not asking for medical advice) I've been having repeated extended periods of heart palpitations for the past 2 weeks. At first I just chalked it up to screwing up my anxiety med schedule while I was on vacation because my med situation does cause heart palpitations if I screw it up. So I didn't think much of it at first but now I've been back on my meds properly for 2 weeks with no change. So, that's cardiac symptoms which in a patient would make me tell them to immediately go to the ER just to be safe. But at the same time it's been going on for 2 weeks and it's probably just some vitamin deficiency or something so it probably wouldn't kill me to wait a week for a clinic appointment (no walk in clinic here). Do I split the difference and go to urgent care? It's like schrodingers medical issue, it's both the worlds most benign thing and a symptom of immediate death until someone looks into it, so how do I know who should open that schrodingers box?

It seems like there has to be some easy dividing line on how to know which one to go to that I just don't know.

Edit: In USA, because that probably matters here.

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by Fosheze@lemmy.world to c/buildapc@lemmy.world

So I recently upgraded every component in my PC to be fairly high end, except I didn't have the money to upgrade my GPU at the time so I was running with my old GTX 1070 for a while. Today I had some extra money so I finally got around to picking up a RTX 4070 super.

While installing it I just discovered a slight hitch in my plan. My primary monitor is 4k and uses display port so it isn't an issue. But my secondary monitor is an ancient 1080p monitor which only uses dvi and vga. The 4070 super only has display port and HDMI slots. I've been running with two monitors for so long that I don't know if I can stand going back to a single monitor.

It's already too late to run out and pick up an adapter so my plan for now is to install both GPUs in my PC and just pull the 1070 back out whenever I get around to getting a new secondary monitor or an adapter. Will a RTX 4070 super and a GTX 1070 both work in the same PC or am I just stuck with one monitor until I can get an adapter?

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I like the bit of minty burn and it doesn't feel greasy afterwords like the non-alcohol based ones I've tried.

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Red Lobtr Rule (lemmy.world)
submitted 3 months ago by Fosheze@lemmy.world to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by Fosheze@lemmy.world to c/whatisthisthing@lemmy.world

A friend of mine just sent me this picture and said someone they knew just got a capybara. I informed them that that definitely isn't a capybara. Now neither of us know what it is. It kinda looks like it's in the uncanny valley of the rabbit species. Is it just a fucked up looking rabbit?

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