Who cares if the arguments resemble one another? The underlying situations are what determine if the argument makes any sense.
"I was afraid for my life" is a fine argument for firing back if someone pulls a gun and starts shooting at you. It's ridiculous when it comes from a cop who opens fire on a kid with something in his hands.
if ukranians want to stay independent russia should respect that
The parts of Ukraine Russia controls right now were trying to break away from Ukraine before the war. And again, Russia is not trying to conquer Ukraine -- the goal is to keep Ukraine out of NATO.
Any reading you can recommend on this?