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A small group from my church is Opinions on street evangelism? planning to go out soon to do street evangelism and I kinda agreed without really thinking about it. I suppose I felt like I just should've

The thing is that I'm not sure if I like the concept. I think that if God wanted someone to come to him then he'd set pieces in place to draw them in. Trying to go out to random people and just going "Hey do you know God? You should repent now!" Feel more like interfering and forcing God onto people

Like I've seen a few clips of those "Christian Youtubers" who do things like that and honestly I get embarrassed from watching. If you're gonna approach someone and take time out of their day then you should respect them and know when to stop.

Plus I'm pretty introverted aeound strangers and I don't like going up to people unless I have to😭

 

I’m not even joking. Every day before taraweeh he gives a little 5 minute talk about a verse he read or a story he’s researched.

Yesterday he came out with this. He said that before the non Muslims were open and direct with stopping us practice our religion. Now they are more “covert” so they use “hidden tactics” like stopping you praying Salah.

Bro what 😂😂😂😂

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On International Women’s Day, there was a post that went viral on Instagram, about how Islam honors women with hadith, and Quraan verses that prove that.

This is an example of hadith mentioned in the post:

Islam honours Women:

  • A mother is a gateway to paradise, a daughter is a path to mercy, and a wife is a garment of love
  • "The best of you are those who are best to their women" ~ Prophet Muhammed
  • “Whoever has three daughters, cares for them, and is patient with them, will enter Paradise"~ Prophet Muhammed
  • "The best of you are those who are best to their wives"~ Prophet Muhammed

Notice how there is a pattern?

All of these are extremely indirect and focus on what men get rewarded when they treat women well.

This is not fitting the context at all, in my opinion.

I have also heard this talk so much whenever the notion of feminism in Islam is brought up, and I just think that it’s the wrong take and wrong arguments.

I’m actually starting to hate this perspective that is completely centered around men.

It emphasizes how women should be submissive and only serve as a way for men to earn more rewards.

But how about we actually start talking about women now?

What do you guys think?

I’m curious.

 

Netflix just aired a completely unnecessary and racist attack on Dagestanis in their new show Running Point.

The show is about a wealthy family that owns a basketball team, and Kate Hudson’s character, Isla Gordon, is put in charge of running it.

The scene in question happens in episode six, where a basketball podcaster named Sean Murphy, who has a history of being critical of Isla, is in the middle of recording an interview.

At this point in the story, he has just revealed something that makes it clear he got inside information from someone who was trying to create tension between Isla and her star player.

Furious, she storms into his studio and interrupts him, demanding to know who leaked the information.

When Sean reminds her that he’s in the middle of an interview, she snaps back with, “Just tell whatever wife-beating Dagestani MMA fighter they can wait.”

What makes this line so outrageous is that it comes completely out of nowhere.

This is a show about basketball.

The podcast is about basketball. The audience watching the podcast within the show would be basketball fans.

There is absolutely no connection to MMA, let alone Dagestani fighters.

The chances of a Dagestani even watching this fictional basketball podcast are next to none.

So why was this line written? It serves no purpose to the plot, no relevance to the scene, and is just a blatant and unprovoked smear against Dagestanis and Muslim fighters in general.

This wasn’t satire.

It wasn’t a joke.

It was a direct attack, casually inserted into a show where it had no place.

And the fact that Netflix signed off on it shows exactly how normalized Islamophobia has become in the media.

If a line like this had targeted any other group, there would be immediate outrage.

But because it was aimed at Muslim athletes, it’s just brushed aside. It’s disgusting.

 

For starters , I am a woman (south Asian to be specific- probably can beat you at growing a beard)

My question is , is it haram for Muslim man not to grow a beard ?

The reason why I am asking and also observing Muslim men , tend to comment on non hijab women for not wearing a hijab . Majority of them are clean shaven , shave off their beards etc ( which tempts me to reply ‘brother , where is your beard ?)

Is it fardh for a Muslim man to grow his beard out ?

 

So I create content online and it’s mainly beauty and lifestyle content.

I don’t wear hijab, but I do dress really modestly.

I don’t address being Muslim or following Islam in any of my content. I mainly do this to avoid hate comments and my religion is my personal journey so I don’t think the whole world needs to know what I follow.

I guess lately people have noticed from habits that I am Muslim as in my content it’s evident that I don’t drink, I eat only halal or kosher meat, I try not to use a lot of boycott brands and every Ramadan I basically make no content. I’ve been getting loads of comments asking if I’m Muslim.

I don’t know if I should just ignore them or address them because I know that I am doing everything I can to be a good Muslim but the moment I put that fact on the internet the haram police are just going to come for me.

Even right now where I haven’t addressed it I’ve gotten dms saying I shouldn’t eat kosher meat as it supports Israel and is haram.

Kinda disappointing assumption to make as it’s simply not true. I live in an area where Jewish people are the majority but they are also pro Palestine. Even the kosher butcher is pro Palestine. And to the point of if eating kosher meat is okay my scholar does permit it and if I’m going to be honest the halal meat in my area is terrible quality which is why I prefer to purchase kosher.

I just don’t think my religion really has anything to do with my content.

 

You love who you love, who you get along with.

My parents would never accept a non Muslim man, but is it bad to say I don’t really care??

 

Some Context:
I watched a group of pastors debate Trumpism this week. I think the ones that irked me the worst were the ones pretending to be neutral, and saying, “We’ll see.” about whether democracy will be dismantled.

One called Trump a “kingmaker”. One admitted Trump seeks power but the real mistake was that people keep reacting to him. So they were treating resistance like a problem.

Niebuhr had a warning about this. Democracy falls because good people hesitate. Bonhoeffer too. These pastors sit back all detached and analyzing it like a game... frustrating.

That frustration led me to write this essay and I posted it on the group, and now I'm just sharing it with anyone who might find it interesting.

Curious if others have seen the same cowardice out there.

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Reinhold Niebuhr warned that the greatest moral failures do not come from the wicked but from those who refuse to act against them. Dietrich Bonhoeffer wrote that silence in the face of oppression is itself oppression.

What do we make of those who say “We’ll see” while authoritarianism is in the processing of taking hold, democracy dismantled, and power is bent toward a single man?

Somewhere along the way, it seems resisting evil became secondary to standing back and analyzing its strategy. Some admire how well it’s working, as if morality is measured by effectiveness.

But morality isn’t about whether something succeeds. It’s about whether it should.Yet I hear:-“Trump is just a kingmaker.” As were Caesar, Napoleon, and Hitler. What exactly are we praising?-“We’ll see in 2028.” We saw in 1933. We saw in 1939. We see it now

Proverbs 24:10-12 warns against standing idly by"If you faint in the day of adversity, your strength is small. Rescue those who are being taken away to death; hold back those who are stumbling to the slaughter. If you say, ‘Behold, we did not know this,’ does not he who weighs the heart perceive it?"

This is active language that demands intervention, not observation or passivity.

Niebuhr warned that democracy doesn’t fall because evil is too strong. It falls when those with the power to resist decide it isn’t their responsibility. They hesitate, analyze, and wait for someone else to step in.

In The Children of Light and the Children of Darkness, Niebuhr wrote:"Man’s capacity for justice makes democracy possible; but man’s inclination to injustice makes democracy necessary."

Democracies do not sustain themselves. They require vigilance, resistance, and a refusal to assume that the worst will never happen. Niebuhr argued that the “children of light” (those who believe in justice and democracy) struggle because they assume reason and goodwill are enough. Meanwhile, the “children of darkness” (those seeking power for its own sake) understand how to manipulate fear and self-interest to weaken democratic institutions.

In Moral Man and Immoral Society, Niebuhr expands on this. He argues that individuals may act morally, but groups, especially political and economic elites, serve their own interests, mostly at the expense of justice. Power does not restrain itself out of principle. It is only checked when it is met with resistance.

Waiting to see what happens is very real permission. Neutrality and perceived wisdom becomes a costume for what's underneath.

James 4:17 removes any excuse for inaction"So whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin."

Knowing the right thing and doing nothing is its own moral failure.

Bonhoeffer, who resisted Hitler while German Christians convinced themselves he was just another leader, put it even more bluntly:"Silence in the face of evil is itself evil. God will not hold us guiltless. Not to speak is to speak. Not to act is to act." (Letters and Papers from Prison)

The Christians who stayed silent in Nazi Germany made it easier for power to consolidate. By the time resistance became obvious, it was nearly impossible.

Trump’s grip on the GOP, the purging of civil servants, the restructuring of government to serve one ideology...none of it is a hypothetical. It's certainly justified with "we need to balance our budget" or other Christian ideas.

The FAA union president just confirmed that essential staff were fired with no evaluation. USAID is in shambles, and people are now dying in other countries so we can improve our budget. This suffering is framed as a necessary sacrifice. Ask yourself: for whom and to what end?

It's a strategy and not an accident. When the government no longer works for the people, the people beg for an alternative. Any alternative. It's manufactured crisis and control and how authoritarian power consolidates.

Medicaid, Medicare, Social Security, veterans’ benefits, VA staffing, worker protections dismantled. Gas and grocery prices still high. Meanwhile, they’re picking fights with Canada and Mexico instead of solving anything. Canada was not on anyone's radar 6 months ago. Another example of manufactured chaos.

Is Christianity about sabotaging trade, destabilizing allies, and joking about annexing Greenland?

The play is obvious. It's about handing billions to the ultra-wealthy and leaving the rest to fend for themselves.

Overcoming something requires movement. It requires resistance.

The demand for authoritarian power isn’t new. In 1 Samuel 8, the Israelites demanded a king so they could be “like the other nations.” They wanted strength, security, and a leader who would fight their battles. God, speaking through Samuel, warned them:
“He will take your sons and make them serve with his chariots… He will take your fields and vineyards and give them to his attendants… You will cry out for relief from the king you have chosen, but the Lord will not answer you in that day.” (1 Samuel 8:11-18)

They didn’t listen. And when they suffered under that king’s rule, they had only themselves to blame.

Today, the same people who claim to defend faith and freedom are demanding a ruler who wields unchecked power in their name. They want a political savior to crush their enemies, enforce their values, and punish the people they fear. History and scripture warn against this. When faith becomes about securing earthly power rather than pursuing justice, it is no longer faith, it's idolatry.

A question:

Will you reject what scripture warns against and place your trust in a strongman who demands your loyalty at the cost of truth? Or will you recognize that the pursuit of power for its own sake always leads to suffering?

History will remember those who resisted and those who enabled. What will it say about you?

I'll leave with this verse, another clear call to action and not passivity.

Romans 12:21"Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."

 

I want to get into theology, but I don't want to stumble about into something I don't find worthwhile.

Do you all have any recommendations?

Thanks!

 

Last week we had someone show up on this sub and express regret for voting for Trump. I’m still wrapping my head around the responses. 

Let me explain... 

I am an addict and a member of several 12 step programs. (12 step programs were derived from the Oxford Groups which was a  movement to live out first-century Christianity.) I was raised Catholic which later as an adult didn’t work for me and as part of my religious healing in recovery, I came to know a very down-to-earth and real-world Jesus. 

Shame NEVER motivated me to change. Only love did that. When I arrived in the 12-step rooms, people loved me until I could love myself. They said, “Hey, we’re so glad you’re here! Pull up a chair and listen and share. We’re here for you.” They showed me grace and that’s what allowed me to change. 

Here’s what they didn’t say... “What were you thinking? How could you have done that? Didn’t you realize how that would affect everyone around you?” 

I see many hard-core Trump supporters as addicts. They’re at step one: “We admitted we were powerless over [deceit], and that our lives had become unmanageable.” Forgiveness and amend-making doesn’t come until steps eight and nine. 

God is good and the grace is REAL.

My plan when it comes to people who regret their Trump vote is to be there for them. And I will say, “Hey! I’m so glad you’re here! Pull up a chair and tell me about you and how you came to vote for Trump. I’m here for you.” 

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This post (and others) ared meant to help widen the Community/Subreddit so that there is content in the Lemmy community.

I even added links to the OG Subreddit posts.

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