I chose half-elf due to attractive faces and relating to the lore of not fitting in. I switched off, because apparently half elf is the most played. I don't like playing mages in turn based combat games. I chose warlock for the lore of being bound with an archfey, but I sus you don't ever see your bound entity anyway so I went cleric since it was the least chosen and they deal some sweet DPS AND heal.
Most old Asian mmorpgs had character creators full of sliders for everything where you actually had the ability to make what or who you wanted. I.e. perfect world. Nowadays character creators have far less options and all the available ones are very strictly aligned with gender roles. I wouldn't call BG3 character creation to be inclusive of nonbinary bodies at all and I doubt I am the only person in the world with zero tits and all the thighs and a cute face.
I'm not a drinker, but I see how diligent you are in maintaining this community! It's very heartwarming to see!