dick_fineman

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[–] dick_fineman@discuss.online 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Oh that's even better. The mods here censored that?! I thought I had said much worse. Anyway, I didn't say not to vote DNC...

[–] dick_fineman@discuss.online 7 points 6 days ago

Well duh. The fuck did you expect?

[–] dick_fineman@discuss.online 2 points 6 days ago (3 children)

I didn't say that. Some mod censored me so I can't quote directly, but I'm pretty sure I basically just said the DNC sucks corporate dick too. The RNC is worse, so we have no choice BUT to vote DNC. But the DNC is horrible and we deserve better.

[–] dick_fineman@discuss.online 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

None of us are paid well, but we're working for a charity. So...

[–] dick_fineman@discuss.online 4 points 1 week ago

7? My penis has been confused lately.

[–] dick_fineman@discuss.online 23 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Hate to tell you, but that's closer to 20 years than it is 10.

[–] dick_fineman@discuss.online 1 points 1 week ago

This all just made me sad.

[–] dick_fineman@discuss.online 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I didn't understand the instructions and think I robbed an Uber driver.

[–] dick_fineman@discuss.online -3 points 1 week ago

No one cares.

[–] dick_fineman@discuss.online 3 points 1 week ago (8 children)

YEAH! SO VOTE DNC Because something something corporate...oh shit they just took another donation from Tesla...something something regulation...something something "we need to mend fences".

Anyway, do you laugh when you go fuck yourself, clown?

 

Broken laptop pictured under tablet, work laptop pictured under phone.

 

Residential was my first job in HS. I went to school for Psychology and really wanted to do something in that field at the time. A mentor recommended a local residential facility I won't name, and I made the mistake of explaining I wanted to gain "experience". Something to keep in mind is that I'm 6'5, back then was about 240lbs, and my work experience included bouncing and other forms of physical security (among other things).

So this place handled behavioral issues, traumatic brain injuries, and folks with intellectual disabilities. Each of those 3 had their main "campus". And each unit had a "clever" name that was meant to encapsulate the flavor. For example, we had "Brown Hall" for the most violent folks, due to the fact that A) dried blood is brown, and B) so is feces. Another unit was called "Buttonwood" for the younger kids with ID (cute as a "button"), etc. Well, I made the mistake of saying I wanted to gain "experience". So they started me out, 0 experience in this field, in "Wildwood". Wildwood, ostensibly, was a mix of all 3 campuses, and focused on folks who needed 24/7 access to nurses and medically-trained staff. Unlike the other units (which would have nurses visit every day to administer meds), we had our own nursing substation.

As the name implies, it was "wild". Anyway, after all of my training (if memory serves it was a month/160-hours of VERY intensive training covering all sorts of topics, especially non-injurious physical restraints) they gave me a group. I had a 90lb 17-year old non-verbal with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome who could barely walk (let's call him "Teddy"), a 250lb bipolar-psychotic in his 20s ("Lebron"), and 180lb guy with Down's also in his 20s ("Willy"). The names are fake, of course.

Long story short, after a week on the actual job, I interrupted Lebron raping Teddy. Teddy and Lebron were roommates. Undisclosed to me, Lebron had a history of weird rapey/unwanted sexual behavior with other clients...but the Unit Manager thought it was a great idea to bunk him up with a 90lb non-verbal.

Now, during the day, Teddy is "Close Reach", Lebron is "Intermittent Visual-15", and Willy is "Visual Range". But at night, everyone becomes either IV-15, 30, or 45. And they would have staff do chores around the unit like vacuuming or laundry. So I put everyone to bed, everything seems fine, I start a load of laundry, come back to check on Teddy and Lebron...and see an obvious rape in progress. I step back into the hallway, and Lebron (who could be pretty fucking terrifying) angrily walks up, and slams the door in my face, like this has happened before.

I snap back into it, push the door back open and begin yelling at him to leave Teddy alone. I yell for other staff. One comes by and I tell him what happened and to watch them both, as I go to talk to our Supervisor.

I go to the Supervisor, let's call him John, and explain the situation. He has me report it to our state's child-abuse hotline thing because Teddy is 17. I go back to the room and can examine it further. All the sheets and bedding from Teddy's bed are pulled off in the direction of Lebron's...as if he literally pulled him out of bed and Teddy resisted. I'm assured everything will be handled properly as my shift ends, I clock out and go home.

I come back the next day and a detective is waiting for me, along with some corporate douchebag from the company that employed me. I learn that Lebron was arrested, a rape-kit is being processed on Teddy, and they pulled his used diapers to...check for things.

The detective is asking me what I saw, and I am answering honestly. The corporate douchebag is doing their best to undermine EVERYTHING I say. "Oh but you didn't see his erect penis?" shit like that. His back was to me and he had mounted Teddy.

After that I had a target on my back until I left. Other staff SHUNNED me. John did his best to protect me, but that meant being on my ASS about every little thing to make sure corporate/Unit Manager didn't have anything to complain about. And after everything, Lebron came back to the unit. They gave him his own room with a 1-to-1 and a dollar-store "door alarm" on his door.

Immediately after, the groups were changed, I had Teddy and another young guy who had ID and was really easy (he just wanted to color). The state paying for Teddy to stay with us ultimately relocated him to a less terrible facility. And I left residential a few months after that in disgust (for that, and other things I saw), but am still in HS. There are good folks in this field, but residential is a fucking cesspool

 

So I'm very new to the Fediverse. I really don't know much about creating communities here. But I was looking for a community focused on Human Services/Direct Support and couldn't find one...so I figured why not learn the Lemmy interface more and just create one!

I don't want to be a mod. I'm more of a lurker, and am not interested in policing anyone's speech. I mostly intend to back off, unless I see something particularly terrible. I'm very open to suggestions on, well, pretty much everything here. And if you want to be a mod, I guess message me and we can talk.

I hope this becomes something useful to folks working in Human Services!

 

What are your favorite communities for AI discussion?

Thanks in advance.

 

My understanding is that mods can silently remove content from their subreddits, but it will still show up in your comment-history. However, admins can silently remove content and it will NOT be in your comment history. Well, when I'm logged out, I noticed some of my comments were "removed" but when I'm logged in they show up. Looking at the comments more closely, I don't believe they broke any rules...at least not site-wide rules. I received no notification that they were removed either.

Further, these comments ALL related to the Trump/Zelensky interview. I get the need to moderate online communities, but there's something particularly dystopian about quietly censoring someone for expressing political-speech you don't like, and doing it in such a way that they (theoretically) don't even realize they've been censored (if they're not weird paranoid fucks like me). You've just secretly put a bubble around them, all for the crime of political speech you don't like.

Here are some screenshots to verify what I'm saying:

https://i.imgur.com/kff8INQ.png

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And so the same thing happened when I posted this exact post (above the "...") in another sub on Reddit...one I participate in regularly. And here's how that looks:

https://i.imgur.com/NzRI5T6.png

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