To your point on Trump, his supporters are a diverse group, most don't believe what the media reports on him (see: the media blindly repeating the government's lie that the economy is doing fine), and those that do genuinely believe it will solve their problems thanks to decades of suffering and not ever being helped by more positive policies.
To your second point, not really. The most misogynist groups believe Harris has been running the country since Biden more or less admitted he was unfit for office. They've internalized that a woman is currently president. If a woman wholly unrelated to the Biden campaign came out swinging against biden and Trump while acknowledging the dem party's failures, she would have won, in a landslide. There would definitely be holdouts, but theyre never going to vote dem.
There is always a choice, you failed to make it. "Oh third parties can't win" they can. Easily. You just need to vote for them. But Americans like you wanted genocide. You're just mad you might be a victim sooner than later.