emilie

(I couldn't go to thelemmy.club for some reason nor could I access it on Photon or whatever, so I made an account here, i am @nonBInary.)

I hate to complain again, but I just wanted to say, why are people on social media in general so rude? (This did not happen on Lemmy or the Fediverse, by the way).

Like seriously, I was ranting about being abused and harmed and stuff and I wrote an angry letter about how I was treated badly for being different and Person A was just talking about how I should go fuck myself and how I was lying and should die or something like that.

I said "Ok, troll," to A and this other person, B, said that A had a point because I "refused to take accountability for my actions" and that it was my fault I was being treated badly and that maybe I deserved it, yada yada yada.

And then A was talking about how I was a stupid bitch for complaining about it on Unsent Letters instead of talking it out, when 1, I was blocked, 2, I don't have to apologize or explain anything to someone who stalked and threatened me. 3, Unsent Letters is for writing your feelings towards people in a letter you'll never send, is it not? Yet I got downvoted a bunch and told all this stuff and how I was bad and "just because I was autistic didn't mean anything and it was still my fault and I need to take accountability".

Literally, all I did was ask for simple boundaries like "do you like hugs"? And one time I tried to be friends with C IRL and approach her. All I said was "Hi". D, the girl who stalked and harassed me, accused me of eavesdropping and called me a creepy stalker who deserved to die all because I dared say hi to C. She also said that I was a threat and I should never speak to her or C or her friends "or else" and she was gonna "do whatever it took to get rid of me and make sure I was gone", which I may or may not take as a death threat(?) (I'm not sure).

Seriously, how do I deserve all that even if I did something wrong I wasn't aware of?