freeusething

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[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 1 week ago

It would be difficult to show off his boomstick that way though.

 

Assume that there’s no STIs involved. How comfortable would you be with a partner with numbers in the double digits? Triple digits?

When would be the appropriate time to share that kind of information?

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 13 points 1 week ago

There’s a lot of reasons why someone might ask you to stop, and the critical thing is that you do so immediately and check in.

It can start hurting - maybe you hit a wrong angle, maybe there isn’t enough lube. There can also be triggers associated with sex, psychological aspects where a stray thought, a brief smell or feeling, can make things not fun in the moment. Maybe you are pressing on your partner in a way that starts to feel uncomfortable or cramp. Being penetrated can feel intense and overwhelming, and sometimes it’s possible to slip from fun to not fun out of nowhere.

Making sure that your partner knows that you will stop if asked is critical to helping them feel safe.

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Had a doc diagnose me when I was a teenager, but had my medical care taken away as punishment. Was supposed to have some form of surgery, but idk if I’ll ever afford it. Mostly Looking for coping mechanisms

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 6 points 2 weeks ago

I like it quite a bit. I have a lot of anonymous/casual encounters, so I don’t get to enjoy a guy finishing in me very often, but sometimes I enjoy having a guy finishing on my ass (rarely face, I’m usually masked.)

The appeal is degradation. I’d love to set up a bukkake someday. It’s a mark of some sort of “ownership” which goes with my kink of belonging to all men. Cum inside also physically feels great, having a guy pull out and feel it leaking is very fun.

I don’t think my sex life is very comparable to an “average person” though.

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 17 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I can’t imagine many would care.

I like balls, but the physical impact they provide is that lovely feeling of having the scrotum slap into me. I guess two could provide a heavier impact, but kinetic energy is the square of velocity, not mass.

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 9 points 3 weeks ago

Took three guys today. All serviced face down ass up. No idea who they are lol.

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I have a little bit of a “cis male supremacy” kink, which would be problematic if I took it “seriously.” Kinks are all about working with problematic ideas and trying to reclaim them for fun. I think adding in the “consent” aspect covers your bases.

Kinda like when I’m servicing cis men - if they start with the idea that I’m inferior without checking that it’s okay, that’s a no go. After we talk about it - hell yes call me a pathetic little fake boy. I’m confident as a man, but submitting to “real” men with their superior cocks is great. It’s fun to imagine that I am biologically ordained to be a three holed slut, a natural bottom due to my anatomy. It’s not inherently “true” but it gets my dicklet standing at attention.

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

I am pretty sure they can choose size when they have their bottom surgery.

Within a range with phallo, depends on what they use for the skin graft, blood flow and other things.

I would probably get a meta and try to keep my cunt. What I have from T looks pretty close to a vestige already, a meta wouldn’t add too much length. My cunt figures pretty heavily in my kink for submitting to other men - I’m set up to service a cock at any time, compared to other IM’s, who usually have to prep to be penetrated.

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 4 weeks ago

A nice jock strap/cup underwear.

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 1 month ago

Tastes different based on the guy. Reminds me of undercooked egg whites in both texture and taste mostly, which I like most of the time.

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Oh the curve would hit nice spots… love the color

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 1 month ago

Unfortunately, there are some people who are specifically into people not being okay with things. Think about how often porn depicts coercive scenarios. Not even full on rape, but pressuring (usually women) into doing acts that they specifically don’t want to do.

I had a very upsetting encounter the other night along those lines.

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