[-] lath@lemmy.world 7 points 3 hours ago

You should have faith in humanity. But faith is illusory and reserved only for things that are highly unlikely to happen. So your faith was well placed, it just didn't pan out. Which is pretty standard overall.

[-] lath@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago

It might, it might not. A different study would be needed.

Hypothetically, the night lights themselves might trigger functions which need natural light in order to reach completion. This could cause a series of incomplete chemical processes which accumulate over time and eventually reach a complete breakdown.

Think of it as a program running incorrect code or a car running on the wrong type of fuel. The damage remains unseen until it becomes irreversible and the body is done for.

[-] lath@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

I get it. Your perspective is completely normal. But you're talking out of fear. While it's fine to take note of it and make plans in case of worse outcomes, allowing fear to take charge of your decisions will only cause you to fall deeper into it.

Most people don't know what you think they know. Take any family and you'll almost always find gaps in their shared facts. Our presence here on Lemmy is deceiving us in what is supposed to be common sense that is often not. But at the same time, the fediverse is a good example of how many topics and interests we don't share or know of at all.

And besides, if these gun wielding maniacs are so widespread, why would running away help? You'll just meet them everywhere you go. Makes no sense to trade the danger you know with others you don't. Call it survival, but it's really waltzing away with limited resources and knowledge into the great unknown.

Less fear, more reason. Or you'll just drive yourself crazy with worry.

[-] lath@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Your problem is that you believe their actions aren't supposed to be justified. But that's the wrong approach. "Every action has consequences" is just bullshit on its own. The web of reaction is as old as the universe and us picking which action deserve a certain reaction is nothing more than personal whim.

We're flawed beings, all of us. I can't be right for every situation, but neither can you. And the difference between us is that I want to try and treat each individual as an individual. You may see this as excusing an abuser, I see it as fighting against abuse.

I won't protect everyone and i can't protect everyone, but just like any other kind of death row decision, it has to be earned. Each degree of punishment has to be fair. The chance for redemption has to be given. Punishment should be for the purpose of rehabilitation. And if we can't do it at an individual level, how can we expect it to be done for a better society.

Being just is hard work. And if you can't do it, why expect it of others?

[-] lath@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

Hello there. If you'd like to go on a wild goose chase, I can tell you that some years back on the PPSSPP forum there was a thread asking about this sort of thing. If you can find it and if it received an answer, then you might be able to solve this conundrum.

Have fun!

[-] lath@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago

You don't have to be the one fucking around as long as there are others fucking around you.

[-] lath@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

It's normal to attack and be attacked, it's also normal to have a friendly exchange of ideas and it's very normal to communicate through memes and soundbites.

What isn't normal is to communicate through emojis. We need to shun those people! They must not be allowed to propagate a second hieroglyphics age! Archeologists will think it was aliens all over again!

Shun them!

[-] lath@lemmy.world 39 points 2 days ago

Kid loves you because you're still there for him, for better or worse. If he doesn't feel abandoned or less important than material things, then he'll keep on loving you just the same.

Still, long-term, you need to plan for building him an independent life while getting one for yourself. It's a tough gig but you have experience. Your work ain't done yet pops, so good luck!

[-] lath@lemmy.world 8 points 4 days ago

Above an underling you will find a ling and above them, you will find an overling.

[-] lath@lemmy.world 26 points 5 days ago

It merely shows no one is exempt from displaying bias.

[-] lath@lemmy.world 15 points 5 days ago

Ever heard of the saying "Walk a mile in my shoes"? So the clearest means of conveying information would be to encapsulate someone's entire life experience up to that point, temporarily transfer that state to the other person and allow them to understand the entire background of how that information came to be. Do that back and forth and you have the clearest means of communicating information between people.

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A timid beetle(?) (lemmy.world)
submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by lath@lemmy.world to c/bugs@lemmy.world

What's its name? I've seen some before, but rarely. Once every few years or so. Thanks

Edit: the likeliest candidate is an Old House Borer without antennae.

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