[-] torpak@discuss.tchncs.de 93 points 1 year ago

The best solution to this problem is not to buy one in the first place.

[-] torpak@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 1 year ago

Is there anyone who likes landlords? Why would they?

[-] torpak@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 1 year ago

So you give them $14 and hope, they don't sell your data? I never had a facebook/whatsapp account and never will and I know why.

[-] torpak@discuss.tchncs.de 48 points 1 year ago

The only thing that surprises me is that anyone is surprised by this. If you buy a physical book from anywhere, you own it. If you "buy" the rigth to play a movie (or read a book) from amazon, you own nothing. Usually they don't show that so clearly but that's the reality.

[-] torpak@discuss.tchncs.de 28 points 1 year ago

Climate change. I live in a city with decent bicycle infrastructure and good public transport. Yet most people still argue they need their damn car to get to work alone without luggage, less than 5 kilometers away.

[-] torpak@discuss.tchncs.de 35 points 1 year ago

No amount of ethics teaching will change the behaviour of a narcisistic psychopath like musk.

[-] torpak@discuss.tchncs.de 19 points 1 year ago

Reddit against religion. Hand me the popcorn.

[-] torpak@discuss.tchncs.de 15 points 1 year ago

I don't exactly understand what is remarkable here. But maybe that is because I'm not from the USA.

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AuDHD Strengths? (discuss.tchncs.de)

I have a dual diagnosis and I know a lot about my weaknesses. I read a lot about autistic strengths but I feel most of those either don't apply to me or they are negated by my ADHD.

For example I love making todo lists but following them needs extreme amounts of willpower. I'm good at analytical thinking but my lack of working memory and my distractability make it hard to do anything with that...

Are there any non obvious strengths I could look for?

[-] torpak@discuss.tchncs.de 21 points 1 year ago

For anyone who thinks that is surprising: I have a bridge to sell you.

[-] torpak@discuss.tchncs.de 16 points 1 year ago

My mental health has been slowly degrading over the last 20 years. But when something changes very slowly I always wonder "did it really change?". Also when I am depressed it feels like I have allways been depressed. So for a long time I didn't do anything about it and just tried to function. Our neighbours, who are also friends are social workers and they work with autistic people who can not live without help but are mostly independent. They once let slip that they think I could be autistic. When everything got so bad that I finally couldn't procrastinate looking for therapy any more I had an initial talk with a psychologist. They asked some questions we were talking about many aspects of my life when I told them about the theory. Next thing they told me was: "This must be diagnosed before you start any kind of therapy because the therapy would need to be completely different depending on the diagnosis." So I started searching for places who diagnose autism in adults. Every one in my area had waiting lists for years so I started looking further out. In the end I was lucky and found a place in a city I could reach by train (I can't drive) where I had to wait only a month or so. The friendly psychologist there told me after a few minutes that she was reasonably sure I was autistic and had ADHD but that we still needed to do all the tests just to be sure. We did all the tests and it was confirmed.

[-] torpak@discuss.tchncs.de 13 points 1 year ago

You are doning it wrong. Whenever I buy new hardware, I read up on linux support before. Formated my last windows partition at home 5 years ago.

[-] torpak@discuss.tchncs.de 19 points 1 year ago

I have never owned or operated a car and this doesn't really make me want to.

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