zagaberoo

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[–] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

You really can't see the forest for the trees. Reflect.

[–] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 2 points 1 week ago (3 children)

It's only about you because you made it about you.

"Ghoul" is not a slur. You saying that seeing an unpleasant word next to a word that reminds you of anime is at all equivalent to a slur is frankly ghastly of you.

You'd almost have a leg to stand on if they changed it to "Captain Weeaboo" or something, but even then the comparison is a stretch. You're showing up at somebody's funeral to say "I scraped my knee, that's bad too! We're all equal as humans, so I deserve to speak".

Grow up.

[–] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 3 points 1 week ago (5 children)

You're drunk for thinking this is about you.

[–] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 6 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Go home, you're drunk.

[–] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Fair point, but I can't blame them for playing it safe here.

[–] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 12 points 1 week ago (12 children)

Sure, because the persecution of black people in the US is at all equivalent to the bullying of anime nerds, right.

The problem is not that thin-skinned people could do mental gymnastics to find reasons to be upset, it's that 'coon' is straight up a racial slur that was historically a major tool of oppression.

[–] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 2 points 1 week ago

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[–] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 2 points 1 week ago

Precisely why I say 'unlikely'. For every couple who's happy without physical intimacy, there are probably ten others that are falling apart. Saying that kisslessness signals disfunction is not the same thing as saying that hypersexuality signals health.

At the end of the day, everyone is different and it's not possible to infer anything about an individual couple by looking at averages and correlation. It's still interesting to look at trends and why they might be the way they are.

[–] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 4 points 1 week ago

Five seconds or less is a huge smallest bucket for kiss duration! At the five-second threshold you're already entering make-out territory.

Plus, people whose kisses average one second are having a very different experience than those who average around four seconds.

Seems like a poorly-designed statistic to me. I wonder if they felt they needed such coarse granularity because the data is collected by survey and people struggle to bucket themselves well.

[–] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

It's a key symptom, I'd say. Relationship health is a deep and subtle thing, but if people aren't kissing then it's unlikely things are going well.

[–] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 3 points 2 weeks ago

Sex is a hell of a drug when it comes to diversity.

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