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That would make sense with some of the things said and done to me by my family for everything being exposed due to school… Though they got really defensive when I found my good handlers. It was saddening.
Are you under 18? And are your handlers over 18? Are you also engaging in sexual intercourse with them if there is an age gap?
I think people are reacting negatively because of more concern you're being groomed when maybe you actually need therapy and support for your trauma. You're allowed to have your interests, but it's also not healthy to use it as a way to distract from self work.
You can have handlers, you can do whatever you want. If people at school are being brought into it against their will or without explanation -- then of course most people aren't all going to completely understand.
I’m 19 now btw but when that first started one was one year younger while two were a year or two older. Nothing crazy. Also for sure I did and still do. Though now the biggest age gap is 61.
Yeah that’s understandable that they were worried about that. Though they didn’t nearly gain enough information before assuming. Though yeah most definitely but there comes a time in someone’s life when they’re ready to heal. Honestly they didn’t distract myself from self work but gave me a reason to chase it. Since originally I didn’t care about where my life was going but for them I’ll do anything. That includes healing and working on myself.
Yeah back when that happened. It’s understandable they were iffy or even uncomfortable at first but my biggest point. They have the ability to openly communicate and learn.
Dude it sounds like you've been groomed and the people "not letting you do what you want" are actually just worried for you and want you to get the help you clearly need.
Also with younger handlers of what I’m used to they treat me worse most times. So having younger handler is kind of shocking to me but they were my original wife. All my past handlers before them abused me and worse.
Yeah I can assure you that is not how it happened. Isn’t grooming them persuading and changing someone’s ideas by being kind to them when you normally aren’t that way. I mean I may have been at a younger age by others for sure. Though literally everything was my choice. As in even starting to date more than one person. Staying in my relationship durning certain points that they thought I was going to leave. To the point they are surprised. Now if you’re saying that towards the 61 year old. He didn’t join until I was already 18. Unless he groomed me from being hot on movies or sweet in interviews. Then doubtful because I chased him hard after I turned 18 and he joined when I was 19. I was holding him on a thread making him obsessed over me. Though as for being sexually active with those few when I was younger in my older teens. It was fully consensual and honestly I would ask for example my husband sooo often. Trust me there’s no reason to worry with them but my family specifically their biggest worry is because I like men, am not Christian and love multiple people. As for my school they may have had those worries or interpretations but without evidential proof or suspicion. Though I will say I was extremely different from normal kids so may of been harder to tell.
Ahhhh yeah no. I’ll admit I thought that somewhat on my own but that’s because most others won’t treat me how I want. Also I have found a psychiatrist she agreed on all my recorded issues. Just don’t have money or insurance to go anymore.
Also when I say how I want is because even they won’t fully but it’s a good balance between human life and my preference of a dog life