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How do I get over fear of cooking?
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this post was submitted on 13 Nov 2024
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This is an irrational fear that is having a severe effect on your ability to function in a normal way. You should seek therapy if that is practical.
We don't know how rational or irrational this is. Kitchen fires do happen. If you don't know how to prevent or handle them, then it's a very rational fear to have.
I'm always annoyed when people say "You should just get therapy", because of how completely inaccessible it is to those of us not wealthy enough to be in the upper middle class, which is most of us these days.
They're basically saying "Your problems are fixable but only if you've got thousands of pounds to throw away on a therapist, if you're a normal working class person you're fecked".
You might as well be saying "Homeless? Just buy a house duuh".
I know you yourself mean well (and you do use the "practical" caveat which is appreciated), I don't mean to sound overly harsh, it's just this comes up a lot and as someone suffering greatly from mental illness destroying my life that I can't afford to get treatment for it's very depressing :-(
While I sympathize with your point of view, there are also people who can afford it, need it badly, but don't use it.
Jesus Christ why is everyone else giving cooking and safety advice when OP obviously needs therapy
Cooking can be therapeutic.
And one doesn't preclude the other.