Wow. Sorry that happened. As a long time linux user I am really unhappy with the way Ubuntu has gone recently. Enough so that when I was dropping in my new video card I didn't even consider using that distro anymore. The whole snap thing just rubbed me wrong, and on top of that I was getting a message that if I didn't join their subscription thing, that I wouldn't get all of the updates available. Now there were explanations that that wasn't the actual case, but their wording just really rubbed me wrong, even if it was a 'free' subscription for up to five machines, etc. Back to your situation, I think it might be time to explore some other distros as they might be a better fit for you, and more of a plug and play experience for you. My suggestion would be to install a VM like Virtualbox and then download some .iso files and use them on some new virtual machines that you can run and get a basic idea of how they work/look/feel. After you find one that fits your needs you can migrate. Just remember, when people start giving you grief, just give them the old grep -v... That will make them go away.