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WARNING: Slur + Bigotry

Big callout post on Support on Lemmy.World by another user, showing this Leni person downplayed Elon Musk's Nazi salute, groomed a minor then used plausible deniability, sea lioning, and lots more, all with proof. Leni is a mod of AskLemmy on Lemmy World, as well. Leni has been replying to my comments on this community (transgender on lemmy.ml) too. I am advising that this community be cautious about this person. Leni is a deceptive individual who pretends to be a trans ally in public for clout, but in private, the demeanor is a lot different.

The screenshot above (which is under a spoiler) is a screenshot of a Discord message "Call me Lenny/Leni" sent to a trans man. Leni claims to have apologized but whenever people bring this screenshot up, Leni complains to mods/admins to get any evidence on this deleted, and then uses the deletion as proof of innocence. Just thought I'd let this community know. Stay safe everyone, these are weird times we're living in.

People have said that the reason Leni wants callout posts deleted is because Leni wants others to believe it's all "slander" and that Leni is an innocent person who is a "targeted individual". Leni will attack and threaten people who make callout posts, often accusing them of being the same person (I checked, and there are a LOT of other people calling Leni out, it's not just one or two people, and I'm paraphrasing based on the callout post I linked above)

In the screenshot here, "Call me Lenny/Leni", username shinigamiookamiryuu, is telling a trans man to "do what the person in Nashville did, minus the parts you're too weak to do, because that is so you". A slur, "ok*ma", was also used, and Leni gaslighted/,manipulated by saying that it's from One Piece. I can confirm this person is well into adulthood and not a kid, so these things should never have been said in the first place.

Comments Leni made towards a minor repeatedly on DeviantArt: (there's links which prove the screenshotsare legit here (Content Warning: adult being creepy to a minor) https://www.deviantart.com/comments/18/2612773/4879845792

https://www.deviantart.com/comments/18/2617047/4886760940 )

Screenshots:

WARNING: Adult being creepy to a minor

WARNING: Adult being creepy to a minor

WARNING: Adult being creepy to a minor

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[–] davel@lemmy.ml 6 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Three months ago, they got a six month site ban from lemmy.ml. They still have three months to go.

Six months ago, they got a three month site ban.

One year ago, they got an I-don’t-know-how-long site ban.

https://lemmy.ml/modlog?userId=1632083

[–] ItsJannnneee@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

Call me Lenny / Leni recently replied to my comment on this community. https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/22882607 I don't know how Leni is replying to my comment despite the ban.

[–] davel@lemmy.ml 7 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

That’s a quirk/bug of site bans and Lemmy federation. That comment is only visible on lemmy.blahaj.zone and lemm.ee. It doesn’t get federated to other instances. See the same post on lemmy.ml and lemmy.world, for instance, and the comment doesn’t appear:

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I’ll try doing a community permaban, which might be more effective than a site ban, not really sure.

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