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Can you manifest that I get over my old crush so I can date my new crush 🙏 (lemmy.ca)

submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by voytek709@lemmy.ca to c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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It feels wrong to jump into a relationship after trying to get over someone and not fully being over them, so I’m gonna wait a while before I pursue this girl and will break up if I just can’t move on.

I don’t want to break up, but I’ll have to for a while, so I hope I can get over the crush soon so we can both date :3

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[–] AuroraBi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 months ago

You can do it! You can ditch them and find someone who likes you back, her ❤️ Things will work out and you will date her.

Also, I saw from a previous post that they befriended their ex that hates you and turned into a jerk, which I don’t think is their fault (it’s probably the ex’s, mean people can be manipulative) but it’s definitely unhealthy to be friends with a manipulative, mean person, even if they don’t know the ex is mean (which they likely don’t).