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I can honestly say I have thoroughly enjoyed my time as a federal worker.

Right now I'm working on my resume. I'm open to work, preferably in finance as I have my accounting degree. If you know of anyone hiring please let me know.

As I have mentioned before, please do not post your political beliefs as I am not interested in debates or opinions. During this time, please remember that government employees are workers at risk of losing their job. It's scary as most of us have dedicated our careers to government and government operations is all that most of us know and now will be forced to look outside for other options and start over. No matter which side everyone is one, no one wants to lose their job so please be mindful of this. Remember that government employees are humans too and it is a very scary time for most of us and our families.

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[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 59 points 3 days ago (8 children)

do you wanna stop fascism? want to see trump and elon musk lose power?

working class solidarity is the first step

our entire lives, we've been tricked and manipulated into fighting among ourselves, because they know if we worked together, we would be able to take them down.

why do you think, every time that something bad happens, there's all the media spin about who we should blame?

they love to do this for age, think about all the boomers vs. gen X vs. gen Z articles and social media posts you've seen

but they do the same shit all the time with different things. their aim is to split the working class into as many splinter groups as possible.

we need to stop letting the assholes in power divide us like this.

unfortunately, that means extending solidarity to people who haven't earned it, including people who chose to vote for Trump.

most of these people were tricked and manipulated. many of them have been fed a steady diet of misinformation. many of them are proud, insufferable bigots.

but being smugly superior, insulting, rude or intolerant isn't how we change people's minds. the best way to do that is by having a two-way conversation.

we are all so busy yelling at eachother. it doesn't work. we need solidarity.

[–] Shanmugha@lemmy.world 18 points 3 days ago (2 children)

No, it does not mean extending solidarity to people who are ok with hurting everyone but themselves, they can go and fuck right off. So whatever solidarity you have in your mind, I for one won't be a part of that

[–] melpomenesclevage@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 3 days ago (2 children)

yeah. it's not bad to help them incidentally-as a byproduct of helping everyone, but helping them specifically, even by extending a momentary gesture of compassion, is a moral failing.

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 2 points 3 days ago (2 children)

i totally get what you mean, and of course i would never ever push anyone into it. i just read some kinda dark comments in this thread and i wished that people would be a little more compassionate

i know they don't deserve it, really - and i totally get how you can think of it as "aiding the enemy" or something.

but i genuinely believe that we can reduce harm just by being a bit more compassionate, a bit more patient, and a bit less aggressive

fascists believe that the world is polarized into "us" and "them", and they believe that "them" would stop at nothing to destroy them.

just a simple act of compassion can show them that there are choices beyond destruction

[–] melpomenesclevage@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

I think once you get past a certain point on fascism, you can no longer adapt to material conditions. you can no longer become not-a-fascist. both because of sunk cost/ego investment/identity, but also because of the way they treat the very concept of facts.

no point in treating them like humans after that. they very much are not. they cannot be healed. they cannot be cured. everything they accuse others of, they are-this only applies to fascists, and things like them. I can call you a chainsaw juggling lizard person, and I will gain no new skills.

edit: yep, just checked. no new skills or scales.

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

dehumanizing people is the first step on the road to genocide.

if you could click your fingers and everyone who voted Trump died, regardless of how they now feel about it, would you do it?

I gave this some thought.

Yes, I would do that.

Do you know how many problems that would solve middle and long-term? Yes, there would be short-term disruptions... a lot of short-term disruptions.

A huge chunk of the problem billionaires would be gone- literally all of the billionaires who own the major media outlets in the US would be gone. The Republican party would cease to exist instantly. There would be a precipitous drop in the number of the belligerently stupid and easily manipulated.

[–] melpomenesclevage@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I did not dehumanize them. they did. I'm pissed about it.

every one? I dunno. I don't value human life very much, so maybe, but im certain a lot of them were just sloppy idiots with zero forethought, I expect not even a majority were to the point they were unrecoverable. every qanon? yes.

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[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I'm with you other than the part about not treating them like humans.

Bad take.

[–] melpomenesclevage@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

okay, so, what is a person? why does it matter?

and are there things that aren't human, that we should consider treating to at least some degree like people? hypothetical actual-AI, various large mammals, corvids, cephalopods, hypothetical aliens, superorganisms of whatever kind, etc?

if your answer is "because I want it extended to me" fascists will not do that. treating them like people does not forward your goal. disrespecting them might.

if your answer is about some fundamental capacities you respect, my bet is fascists have less of those than the average dog, and extending them any courtesy you would not extend to a dog should not be extended to fascists. not that you should extend them any of the courtesies you would extend to a dog. they are not good boys.

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[–] dan@lemmy.i.secretponi.es 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I disagree. These are the people who call compassion the "woke mind virus" and they are takers. They live their entire lives taking from others because they think they deserve it. Yet fight against others receiving support and care.

Expend energy on people who give back instead.

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

thanks for your comment, i completely understand your perspective, but, you know, they say exactly the same kinda stuff about the people that they hate. it makes me uncomfortable seeing MAGA reflected in their enemies

something something gaze into the abyss something

[–] dan@lemmy.i.secretponi.es 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I don't care what they say because they're liars. That's the difference. There's objectively no value in meeting liars half way. There's no value in "hearing them out" and there's no value in acting as though we just need to empathize harder.

They don't care if they lie as long as it furthers their goal, they don't care to hear what anyone else thinks, and they don't have any interest in empathy. If any of my prior statements were false then we wouldn't be where we are.

Your attempt to normalize Nazis is fucked up, to be honest. I am not a hateful person, I am done giving hateful people comfort. You should be ashamed for trying to equate the two concepts.

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

maybe you could approach me with compassion and try to understand, instead of just riding in on a high horse to pass judgment

or don't, believe what you want. i know i'm right.

doing the right thing is often hard. i'm gonna keep punching nazis, but when i see trump voters having their lives ruined, i'm going to put hatred aside to try to create a better world. you may not agree with me, but i hope my comments moved at least a few people.

[–] mangodouble@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

We are tired of the hate. The tribalism. At the end of the day us seeing their humanity might help them see ours. We’ve been doing the hate for the past 8 years and it’s gotten us here.

Empathy will get more converts while anger will further radicalize all of us

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[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

i totally get that, i really do. and if you don't think it's right for you, i fully respect that choice, and besides, some of us still need to be the "stick" so that the "carrot" gets put into perspective!

thanks for your reply! <3

[–] Shanmugha@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Well, we have our differences, but - kudos to you for trying to make people more open and compassionate. It really matters

[–] ameancow@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago (2 children)

working class solidarity is the first step

There is a reason every time FOX News brings Bernie Sanders in to debate socialism or some such tripe, he ends up converting the entire panel to his ideas and it turns into the hosts asking him questions about things they weren't even aware of in terms of class divide.

Seriously, this is LITERALLY THE REASON WHY THEY ARE TRYING TO DIVIDE US WITH RACE. If we don't realize that the very same deluded idiots who believe these lies are also our best bet for kicking the assholes out of government, we're JUST as bad as they are. Yes, they are doing atrocious things and they are reprehensible.

But even if a magic genie appeared and gave us a new, amazing, socialist president who wanted to bring our country to the 24th century and beyond, we would STILL have to live next to the millions and millions of dumbfounded fools who will always believe the simpler story. Education may help, but not for generations. We have to work with the hand we've been dealt.

Start spreading the story that it's rich versus poor, that it's wealthy elites crushing us all, left or right, that we're all being fooled and played against each other. Read up on economic distribution in the US and listen to some of Bernie's speeches and take fucking notes. We CAN change this, but we have to make a better story for the morons to follow.

[–] MountingSuspicion@reddthat.com 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

You cannot extend solidarity to people unwilling to recognize or engage with it. It's the ratchet effect/overton window. We stand up for their rights, they don't stand up when we exercise those same rights. Medication gets more expensive? Everyone is incensed. Viagra is taken off the expensive list, but HIV/birth control meds stay on it, where'd the outcry go? VA benefits slashed? Huge mobilization. Benefits for women's shelters slashed? Crickets from them. We end up in a situation where only white men have rights because that's the only time we're all standing together. Until I see more white men fighting for women and minorities, I'm gonna have to ask why you think this strategy is working. (Obviously, #notAllMen or whatever)

[–] ameancow@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

I’m gonna have to ask why you think this strategy is working

I literally just described that it's an effective strategy to change the narrative to class-consciousness over whatever the blazing fuck the left has been trying to do for the last several decades. My evidence is the fact that it works, that people like Sanders make waves, that people cheer when someone kills a wealthy CEO, that people engage with the narrative.

What are you expecting? Some tactic with 100% conversion rates? Delusions. Of fucking COURSE you can't extend solidarity through a population that easily, what you do is change it enough. Narratives have momentum, people are a liquid in large numbers, you are not trying to contain all the liquid, you cannot possibly. What you do is divert the course. You don't blow up a meteor heading towards Earth, you will just get shotgunned. What you do is alter the course ever so slightly over long periods of time. Russia has been doing this to us for decades and we ignored it.

It's a simple tactic that people can do without government support, and without even political alignment. We have been finger-wagging at the right for a century trying to tell them to be better, they can't be better, they're just our population's dumb, there will always be a dumb segment of the population. Nations who give a flying fuck about their future make sure that the dumb are both provided for and they provide a narrative that they can engage with and get behind.

Since we've never done either of those things, others have and have made the problem worse. But it can be turned around and it will be, the question is who is who we divert them into hating, and who is going to be holding the leash at the end.

[–] MountingSuspicion@reddthat.com 1 points 3 minutes ago

The left HAS been doing class consciousness for decades. I'm not sure where you are or what's going on in your area, but it's been happening. Compromising and shaking hands and smiling. The left does it and even the dems have been doing it (less so than the left, but more so than republicans).

Obama's main thing was healthcare for everyone which was sorely needed in a lot of trump country. People who benefited from the program actively fought against it and are voting for people who want to repeal it. They got healthcare under a Democrat. Where's the goodwill from that? Obama was as close to populism as we were going to get at the time (he came after BUSH - people forget that). To date, republicans think he's this terrible guy who ruined America. Republicans openly complain about free school lunches. Free food and clinics were staples of the rainbow coalition, and we can't get people to accept them from democrats. Sure, Bernie and Luigi get people excited, but democrats are indeed trying to help working class people. Bidens build back better plan was lambasted despite zero mention of dei or trans people (to my knowledge). Just honest to god help for working class people.

Should pride shut down for however many decades it's going to take for everyone to get on board? Should trans people just shut up about their rights? Is that the finger wagging you're referring to? Because I've been there fighting for federal minimum wage increases and women's rights, which help deep red states more than blue states because THEY KEEP VOTING AGAINST THESE THINGS. I live in a blue state and I make above minimum wage. Me and all my friends got sex ed and have access to the women's healthcare we need. I'm not marching for US. I'm marching for solidarity. I'm not chastising people about their dehumanizing usage of the term "hobo" because I know it'll just derail the conversation about if the homeless should HAVE THE RIGHT TO VOTE. I'm there, telling them that if homeless people can't vote then what about renters, then what about spouses or adults living at home. There was a proposal letting businesses owners vote in local elections if they owned a business in that area (in addition to voting in their home area), and I was gladly explaining to people how it gives people with money and no interest in the local area the power and takes away power from the community. And yet, here we are. Things are not getting better. No hearts and minds campaign is going to fix this.

Tell me, what do you think the left has been doing? Nothing? If so, you're not paying attention or actually engaging in organizing. If you're upset at the finger wagging then please explain what trans people are supposed to do in the meantime while republicans work out their feelings. Just die?

I'm not saying the tactic doesn't work at all, but it's not enough. It's too little too late (though it would never have been enough). Revolution is the only way anyone in this country has gotten rights and peaceful chats over whether or not black people should be lynched in the streets again are not gonna cut it. I'd love to have a president like Bernie, but the fact is they had an opportunity to vote for someone who supported school lunches and expanding healthcare, and instead voted for someone who openly talked about closing the department of education. They don't care. They just don't want a dem. 2020 polling of Trump v Sanders had sanders at 48 vs trumps 44. Biden won with 51 to 46. The numbers just aren't there to support that enough people will change.

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

hell yeah, great message, thanks for writing it up!

you should copy and paste it somewhere else so more people see it

[–] ameancow@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Unfortunately, it's not a message that everyone wants to get behind just yet. There are still countless neoliberals and the like who make up the bulk of the population, and they're just apathetic and nihilistic on some level because they've never known community and security and don't want things to change.

The only way people are going to start aligning together is when they start feeling the discomfort, so to this end, I have done a 180-pivot in my own agendas and desires for the future and now I'm an accelerationist, I cheer every time Trump signs some heartless piece of burning shit bill or order, because I know the faster he breaks the system, the faster the countless dumbfounded dipshits will get off their ass and start to try to make things better.

The game the republicans have been playing is to stretch out the actions so that people forget. We have a population with a memory span no greater than 5 years or so, this is why people seemed to forget the chaos of Trump's first term and shrugged and voted for him again. (Among many other reasons.) What we want more than anything right now is for people to NOT forget this pain, we want the hardships to start stacking on top of each other so people don't get a breather, only then will enough people be ready to turn to a new story to explain their pain.

[–] Khaliso@slrpnk.net 12 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

I like you. You're a nice person.

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[–] PyroNeurosis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I get that, and I try, but keeping down so much bile is taxing. Any advice for that?

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (5 children)

first of all, don't put too much pressure on yourself, it's really tough to hold back sometimes. if you can't hold it back, that's okay! sometimes, people do need to be told when they're being cunts sometimes.

but what does help me a bit is really going all-in on the "kill with kindness" thing, really just turning on all the southern charm and hokum. i find playing that character to be quite funny, so it feels less like i'm being taken for a ride, it's more like i have a private joke.

also, i think it really helps to find some common ground, even for some of the worst people imaginable, they'll usually say at least something you agree with, even if it's something silly, like you both like the same video game - i always start with the common ground, people are way more receptive when you open with "yes, i agree with you, and...", that's honestly been really effective for me.

if you look through my history you'll find plenty of evidence of me not taking my own advice. but i'm trying, and i'm trying to bring others with me

i don't think we all need to be perfect, if we can all just try a little bit

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[–] vulgarcynic@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

In my real life I'm much more sympathetic. Even to the point of empathy exhaustion. But when it's strangers online exponentially far away from me on the Dunbar scale, I laugh, ridicule and taunt.

This is my relief. Same way I'll text a buddy and shit on him when his team is getting crushed in a game.

Empathy and class warfare are locked in a timeless battle anymore, but I think there's still room to point at fucking idiots and enjoy their suffering. After all, they'd do the same for us.

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

i totally get that! we can't all be perfect all the time, and i totally get that for some people they've just been hurt too much to ever have a shred of kindness or sympathy towards the people who are at least partially responsible for that pain

i just wish that people could be a bit less hateful, at least. reading the comments in this thread is honestly quite scary. i don't like seeing just... pure hate, from people i would like to be allies with. it reminds me of the hate right-wingers have tbh

[–] vulgarcynic@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I think we've been pressure cooked as a country (speaking as an American as that's my only real, long term reference) and maybe a society thanks to social media to amplify thay hate and outrage.

If its any small consolation, I think the communities around here are hurt and frustrated and learning how to express thay and navigate it in a space where immediate censorship isn't as likely too occur.

Its a lot like the way we used to stretch our legs and push boundaries in the early Internet days. It wasn't easy to get mod banned on most irc servers, but it did happen. In between those moments though, you could get away with saying some vile stuff.

Don't take it to heart, take it as a vent in a place where we are somewhat protected from the hate speech the other side slings.

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

but honestly, it's not a safe space, i've seen anti-trump people be really homophobic, sexist, racist...

sometimes it's hard to see that big of a difference between trump supporters and the people who really aggressively hate on trump supporters.

shit, i checked your history to see if you were cool. 'both sides'? really?

[–] MountingSuspicion@reddthat.com 3 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Didn't they just say they're not interested in a two way conversation? They want support from the people that they voted against the rights of/wills of, because I assure you, plenty of Rs are thinking their cushy fed job should never have existed, and they have no sympathy.

"Views on the impact of downsizing USAID divide sharply along partisan lines, with most Democrats and independents expecting more illness and death in low-income countries (91% and 69%, respectively), and most Republicans expecting positive impacts on domestic programs (72%) and the budget deficit (67%)."

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[–] melpomenesclevage@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

figure they aren't down to be anarchists, requires too much forethought and consideration, but ask them if they would be cool to join the communists and fight for the rights of all workers. if they aren't down for that, fuck em.

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 3 points 3 days ago (5 children)

honestly, you never know - anyone can be brainwashed and radicalized, it's not just something that happens to stupid people

i went through a little alt-right phase when i was younger, now i'm an anarchist i want to go back in time and kick my own ass.

people sometimes take strange, winding journeys to get where they're going!

Everyone is the product of their environment, etc.

[–] melpomenesclevage@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

it's not about brainwashing. I mean, that's in there, but that's not what makes fascists unrecoverable.

it's about the way they consume information. hitler talked about how you should read books; by basically skimming and cherry picking things that support your world view, and discarding the rest of the 'junk'. if all information-all of reality-is consumed that way, you cannot fix them, you cannot heal them, except with a bullet.

there is time between "lol i named my account baskedkekhitler1488" and this, but once they reach that point, and once they have done enough horrible shit that they would have to reconcile with being a good person, they cannot be human again.

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

people can change their minds about stuff, you know?

not that i really advocate for anyone to engage with someone who willingly accepts the label of fascist or approves of fascist ideology

i was really more aiming towards the people who aren't fascist but got misled by misinformation and propaganda, than outright fascists

dipshits who were misled and fucked by misinfo and a lack of education

see, that's ... well it's a huge problem, but it's not the one I'm talking about. yeah, those are still people. probably. they can still, as a group, generally, do all the important person-stuff that makes 'person' an important category.

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[–] zarkanian@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 days ago

Nah, fuck that. Trump voters are a minority. We don't need them.