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it would be cool if websites let you be an adult on them. the advertisers and payment processors need everything to be Family Friendly though and their definitions of family and friendly are absolutely fucked. but since they're in charge of the Internet now, no one is allowed to be an adult. tiktokers say things like "unalive" and "seggs" because they know death and sex are too adult for online. online is for idiot babies only now because they're easier to market to

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oh im sorry you're a trans adult? super ban. you are super banned for life. you have upset Visa's feelings. Mastercard is throwing up in the corner. how could you do this to Google Ads?

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[–] HawlSera@lemm.ee 6 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Good riddance, I hope one days there's an alternative to Discord, I don't really trust it anymore, but I can't think of a program that does the same thing but better.

[–] gon@lemm.ee 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Well, I do believe there's an open source Discord clone that's self-hostable too. It's called spacebar.

spacebar.chat

[–] HawlSera@lemm.ee 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

But does it have a user base?

[–] gon@lemm.ee 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

...Well, some people use it. It can definitely work for your private servers!

[–] HawlSera@lemm.ee 2 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Ahh...

Well gives me hope for the future at least

[–] celeste@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I have heard some people trued matrix, but apparently it's still kinda bad (or was a few months ago). The problem with switching is also always that most people still use the bad corpo site and you want to chat with your non-techie friends usually.

[–] HawlSera@lemm.ee 1 points 3 days ago (2 children)
[–] celeste@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago

No, because I was advised against by a peorson who tried it.

[–] gon@lemm.ee 2 points 3 days ago