Unpopular Opinion
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I mean, like it or not sex is something people want so those who get it will tend to be happier than those who do not.
It's not that complicated. I'm sure the scumbags that womanize women every weekend also have their worth based on how many victims they coerce.
As a man, I've noticed it's way easier to be accepted by others if I'm currently dating a woman. It's even easier to get with other ladies if I'm already with one.
I think a lot of the pushback to your post comes from people on the internet who have been conditioned to overcomplicate simple realities when those simple realities are not what they like to see.
i.e. They don't want society to feel bad for males who aren't getting laid, therefore it's acceptable to call them incels and make fun of them in our social circles. It's better to push incels further and further to the fringe of society until they snap and shoot up schools than it is to have any kind of empathy towards them.
Trying to help an incel is like trying to help a pedophile. It's not good for social clout.