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[-] cubedsteaks@lemmy.today 1 points 1 year ago

The girl who first rejected me was the first one that I liked for genuine reasons, which allowed me to change the way I looked at women

Was there anything she did specifically that made you look at women as a whole differently?

[-] WildlyCanadian@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago

She talked to me without me having to strike up the conversation, that was a huge part of it. She was really easy to talk to, and friendly to everyone. She was passionate about the same things as me, and got me out doing things that were beyond my comfort zone. Basically, she was a human being who treated me like an equal human being. There was no disgust at my presence, or laughing at my awkwardness. Those had been the things I was afraid of prior to that.

[-] cubedsteaks@lemmy.today 1 points 1 year ago

Thanks. This is super insightful for me as a woman.

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