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[–] LilDumpy@lemmy.world 42 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

What else are you suppose to do?

[–] misterdoctor@lemmy.world 17 points 10 hours ago (8 children)

Ask for help. Be vulnerable with the boys.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

The boys can't do anything. They're broke and hopeless too.

[–] misterdoctor@lemmy.world 2 points 56 minutes ago

Sometimes just talking things out is meaningful on its own.

[–] masterspace@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I will just say, having gone through a real rough year, it's not always black and white. I be vulnerable with the boys and ask for help, but I need time to process first, and to do it in the way I want and the time I want.

In the meantime, I am often sending memes for that small comfort of friendship while I process.

[–] LilDumpy@lemmy.world 7 points 3 hours ago

Cool, cool, cool...

Are there any other options tho?

[–] Empricorn@feddit.nl 3 points 3 hours ago

Yes. That's the healthy option. ...Not gonna do it.

[–] Portosian@sh.itjust.works 14 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Lol, no. We'll all just suffer quietly thanks.

[–] gnutrino@programming.dev 15 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Hanging on in quiet desperation is the English way.

[–] blackbelt352@lemmy.world 5 points 8 hours ago

The time is gone, the song is over. Though I'd something more to say.

[–] Sabata11792@ani.social 3 points 8 hours ago

I'll just post 'mood' worthy memes untill the problem is normalized to me long enough to stop making me feel things about it.

[–] Yoga@lemmy.ca 3 points 8 hours ago

Or go to therapy, or a 12 step program, or a support group, or a mens shed or call a crisis line.

But ignoring it and pretending it'll go away on its own letting the pressure build until it explodes is MANLY unlike taking responsibility for your reactions.

[–] phorq@lemmy.ml 2 points 10 hours ago

The inner machinations of my mind are an enigma...

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 12 points 10 hours ago

Wallow in self pity?

I'm good with sending memes.