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As a poor American who had to move back in with family out to a rural nowhere town and then had their car break down yet can't afford to get it running again, it absolutely fucking sucks.
I literally cannot go anywhere. I'm surrounded by fields. The closest store of any kind would be an hour's walk just to get there traveling on 55+mph highways for 80% of the trip with no sidewalk, just a 1ft gravel shoulder between the road and 4ft deep ditches filled with god knows what.
I haven't had social interaction that isn't the two family members I live with, and I don't even want to get started on how they are absolute drains on my already failing mental state.
Plus, now that I don't have a car, even if I do finally get a bite on my job search, which has been going for more than 6 months now, I have no transportation to get to work. I can't work from home due to the country bumpkin internet either.
It seriously just feels like waiting to die out here.
Sounds awful. Your situation is extreme (ah rural America!) but I won't deny there's something freeing about cars. These days I hate cars with a passion, and I've always lived in big European cities where they're completely unnecessary, but even I had a car when I was 20, and I loved it. But then a couple of years later I got rid of it, and I that also felt like freedom and I loved that too... Anyway, just an anecdote. As for your situation, good luck, you'll find a way out of there.
PS off-topic: I've always found "good luck" to be a bit lacking for these contexts, in French there's the much better "bon courage", sadly untranslatable but much more appropriate in your case.
I'm in Louisiana, so using French is actually quite appropriate.
Many people don't really understand how rural it can get.