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In your opinion, what is the correct way to handle a partner who insists they are fat, even though you know that they're objectively not overweight? (reddthat.com)

submitted 4 days ago by ordnance_qf_17_pounder@reddthat.com to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Do you keep telling them they're not fat? Do you decide to just support them as they try to lose weight?

What's your opinion on this?

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[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Depends, how fat? Like I'd say I'm fat if I'm not fitting in my clothes and that's probably 4kgs extra. If I had a partner I'd expect support to get to my desired weight again. Even if I'm still within an acceptable BMI with or without those extra kilos. If I was going too underweight I'd expect them to talk me back to my senses.