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That is bankruptcy, pure and simple. There's no way you'd financially recover from a four month stint in the hospital.
People have literally unalived themselves here over hospital bills like that.
Thank God you weren't in a shit hole country, like the US.
This is not YouTube, don't make it so. You can -and in my opinion, should- say suicide, kill, etc.
Dont say unalived. Say "suicideded" or killed themselfs. Stop censoring yourself
So much of this
I don't understand the need to find alternative words for words we already have. What, in 20 years we need to find alternative words again because the next generation feels insulted by the words this generation came up with?
Just use the words. Suicide. It is what it is. Its ugly, it's sad, it shouldn't be needed, but here we are. Don't make it more palatable by censoring yourself
I like "met their end credits"
I don't think suicide really needs a cutsie nickname
I think you've hit perfectly why I don't like the "unalive" and related euphemisms for death. Death, especially violent death, is a big fucking deal, and trying to obscure that impact behind vague or even cutesy words, makes it seem mundane or routine and accessible.
As someone who just last week attended a wake for the suicide of an 11 year old who lived two houses down from us and was one of my child's friends :thank you for saying that.
Crazy that suicide even crosses the mind of an 11 year old, let alone them actually going through with it.
This is a result of communication being penned in by social media rules. We largely can't even discuss this serious topic on an open level so unfortunately cutesy nicknames are required when talking about serious issues these days.
America needs to be thrown into a volcano
Or get insurance and then the bill is significantly smaller. The much smaller amount can be put on a payment plan if needed or even haggled down to something you can pay.