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when i first heard about the male loneliness epidemic i was like oh yeah close camaraderie and bonding between men is often discouraged in favor of competition or, if not discouraged, at least filtered through a lens of individualism that precludes deep connections. and then i learned what people meant by it (men arent getting laid) to which i say skill issue
to all the men out there not getting laid: try less hard to get laid and try more hard to be an enjoyable and relaxing presence
If it's misandrist to tell the Trump voters who modeled their personalities on empty victory declaration and hurting brown people, then I'm a proud misandrist. Men who suck don't deserve to get laid. No one deserves sex.
Is it possible to have a discussion without some queball trying to make it about Trump?
a discussion about masculinity in the present political era with toxic online personalities and toxic politics and you're upset that Trump gets mentioned? That's a 'you' problem.
We are on @lemmy.world, it is allowed to not be American.
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Are you assuming lonely men all fit the above description? If so, that's idiotic.
If not, then I don't know what the fuck you're on about, lol.
I think a lot of lonely men do fit that description; studies show that political division is affecting dating. It's not that complicated.
Stereotyping and generalizing is uncomplicated by nature, yes. That's the whole point, after all—to prejudge so that you can 'spare' your mind the effort of considering individual situations and circumstances.
Mass individual situations are contemplated through generalizations. I'm not interested in every snowflake.
You tell them.
You're very much part of the problem. Reddit would be a much better fit for you.
Not all lonely men are Trump supporters
All Trump supporters who are lonely have some work to do and don't really deserve sympathy.
Indeed, but my heart is going out to the ones who aren't Trump supporters
Why do you believe that lonely men must suck? Like, do you think men who would be decent partners just immediately find success and leave the dating pool, never to vent their frustration with modern dating culture?
Studies show that political division is affecting dating.
The political environment involves a lot of broken weak men who learned broken weak masculinity and that's affecting dating.
You... do realize there are lonely men in other countries, right? Like, the US is not the only place on Earth? Ah yes, the infamous Trump voters from checks notes ... Norway, Egypt, Japan, etc.
And if you're gonna say "Well they're not voting for Trump but some other Trump-like politician", don't bother. You can't generalize every man, half the world population, just because you know men who voted Trump/Trump equivalents. Because if that'd be how it works, I could just as easily find you a woman that voted Trump and then point out how, supposedly, women suck cause they vote Trump based on this "evidence".
Thank you for perfectly demonstrating one aspect of the peoblem you claim to understand. Assuming all lonely men are conservative is not only wrong but fucking stupid and extremely judgemental. Thank you for proving that you do not understand this problem what so ever, so now you can be safely ignored for the rest of this conversation.
.world ass take
Frankly my positioning on men and feminism is also received negatively on lemmy world. Everyone's all about extending compassion and sympathy to men as subjects in an attempt to control them. Someone suggested we 'redefine strength.' To me strength cannot be redefined: you can only accept that many men are lonely because of their own choices and do, in fact, need to man up.
It isn't easy, you know? It's whether you get it or you don't. Being fit and reliable is hard to some people.
Yeah. Politicians won't get nowhere telling the population about their next NO-BLUEBALLS Act.
Drag's partner deserves sex. Lots of it. Until it can't think straight.
Haven't seen you in awhile Drag, wonderful to run into you. First time on my new instance! (Had to switch form Lemm.ee)