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Is it wrong to like the attention I get from having big breasts ? (lemmy.world)
submitted 1 month ago by SparkleBooty@lemmy.world to c/womensstuff@piefed.blahaj.zone
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Yes, this is a serious question. I still go on reddit and often see on the r/bigboobsproblem subreddit, women complaining about the attention they receive from their chest.

Granted, I do understand where they're coming from, if you just generally as a person don't want to be oogeled at like a slice of meat, I mean, I get that. That is infact uncomfortable.

I love my chest size, they make me feel feminine and beautiful and I appreciate and enjoy the attention they bring me. Because here's the thing, we're not gunna be young forever, at some point, we'll be older, and not attractive anymore.

With that, I kinda don't understand why some women don't like idk... being beautiful or desired? Like it makes me feel good and boosts my self-esteem.

Anyway, ppl are allowed to feel any way they want. Especially when it comes to their body. I just personally don't get why a person wouldn't want the attention.

Im not talking about harassment here, there's a big difference and clearly there's a line. But any way, what do you think?

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[–] FoxyFerengi@startrek.website 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Thank you for sharing that video. I've thought she was empowering herself for a really long time, and thought it was brave that she has been so fearless in being herself, but never heard the origin story

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Naomi Wu is the main reason I have a very jaundiced view of American feminism these days. I mean she's an open lesbian, yet the catty comments from American feminists she kept getting about how she was "obviously" just "looking for male attention" never stopped. Ever.

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

Well nothing is hotter to straight men than gay women, so clearly all her relationships with women are to titallate men. It's the only explanation!

[–] recursive_recursion@piefed.ca 2 points 1 month ago

No worries🤗