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[–] Duranie@leminal.space 80 points 9 hours ago (4 children)

My mom used to do arts and crafts things with gourds. When she passed there were easily over a dozen laying around the house plus a giant one she had started prepping, but never finished.

She was cremated, and the plans were to bury her in the plot she already had next to my dad. State or county requirements, however, that works, allowed us to be the ones to dig the hole to actually place her urn in the ground. When the time came, her five children, their spouses and many grandchildren gathered to dig a great big hole in the ground. We ended up taking the big gourd that she had been working on and placed it in the ground, then as we filled that with dirt we placed her urn inside the gourd. In the end everyone took shovelfuls and handfuls of earth and covered her up.

I can never look at a gourd without thinking of my mom.

[–] flambonkscious@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 hours ago

What a delightful way to go!

Love the whole thing. How big was the gourd? (I gather it held the ashes?)

[–] GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca 28 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

Someday in the distant future, there is going to be a very confused archeologist.

[–] Duranie@leminal.space 15 points 8 hours ago

Lol when it was discussed with the funeral home folks (who gave us the shovel to dig with - left it leaning against the back door of the funeral home the morning of) they just said to let them know when we were done so they could document what was left there for the records.

Yes. This happened in a very, very rural area lol.

[–] chaogomu@lemmy.world 10 points 8 hours ago

Depending on how far along the prep work on the gourd was, it may have decomposed.

[–] CobblerScholar@lemmy.world 12 points 8 hours ago

Thats really sweet, thanks for sharing

[–] grysbok@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 8 hours ago

My dad grew gourdes. One of the happiest pictures I have of him late in life is him standing on the porch, surrounded by gourdes hanging to dry. I have three of his goudes. I also have one of his loufas.