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[–] qwerty@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 3 days ago (5 children)

All the people on here calling guys who like military/tacticool aesthetic insecure are no different than people calling guys fags for wearing skinny jeans.

[–] notarobot@lemmy.zip 3 points 3 days ago

No. Thinking that girly bags make you girly is the same as saying skinny jeans makes you gay.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

no different

  • Being insecure when you see a guy in tight pants and feeling things your pastor told you that you shouldn't

  • Noticing insecurity in others, as they scramble to camouflage something they've internalized as an "other gender" coded activity.

Turning your diaper bag into a tacti-cool military gear is more akin to the sorority sports team that needs to color everything pink and add a tutu as an accessory, so nobody will mistake them as being too butch. It's the fashion equivalent of shouting "No Homo!"

[–] dmention7@midwest.social -3 points 3 days ago

Found the guy who is afraid to wear skinny jeans or use a normal diaper bag.

[–] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

It's the association with what they believe, not what they wear and not their insecurity.

[–] qwerty@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

You are making an assumption about ~~someone's~~ everyone's character, worldview, lifestyle and political association based on a single piece of information - how they like to dress. You're one step away from crossing the street when you see a black guy or asking an asian for help with a math problem.