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My boyfriend (20) and I (18) have been living together for 2 years in an urban apartment. For us, it usually goes like this:

  1. Delivery
  2. Eating out
  3. Cooking at home

We visit our parents (and they visit us) often, and they give us lots of home-cooked food. We mostly cook at home just for fun.

I’m curious what it’s like for other people, especially in different age groups or family setups!

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[–] quediuspayu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 48 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Always cook at home, eating out as a treat once in a while and never use delivery.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 15 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (2 children)

Same here. Except pizza. I'll get that delivered, because it doesn't involve a third party.

Id like to go out more often, but nowadays, I can't take my family out to eat for under $100.

[–] iii@mander.xyz 11 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (3 children)

I have a different point of view. Pizza is one of those things that's easy and cheap to make myself, so I make that myself.

On the rare occasion I do order or go out to eat, I prefer food I can't cook myself very well, like persian or asian food.

[–] eezeebee@lemmy.ca 6 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

On the rare occasion I do order or go out to eat, I prefer food I can't cook myself very well, like persian or asian food.

This is the way. I don't have the means or qualifications to handle a rotating shawarma spit. Some things are best left to the experts.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 5 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

For me, that’s sushi. I do not have the fine dexterity and patience required to put that together myself.

[–] snek_boi@lemmy.ml 1 points 12 hours ago

Neither do I but we still do it with my partner and friends. We don’t do normal sushi and instead make sushi burritos. The sushi burritos are faster and easier.

[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world 3 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

You don’t have a shawarma spit in your kitchen?

[–] eezeebee@lemmy.ca 3 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Just like my sex dungeon.

[–] icystar@lemmy.cif.su 2 points 12 hours ago

Yeah, pizza is more cheap shit with insane profit margins.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago

True, and we do this as well, but pizza is the answer to not wanting to cook or put on pants.

[–] icystar@lemmy.cif.su -3 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (2 children)

because it doesn’t involve a third party.

Man, the rationales some people have for why they let some people rip them off but not others is mind-boggling.

Really reinforces my opinion of the average person.

I can’t take my family out to eat for under $100.

Are you in fucking Belize? Do you have a family of at least 8? Are you horrible with money?

Or maybe this is just hyperbole.

[–] I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.world 4 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

It’s about $75, plus tip for two people to eat anywhere that’s not “fast casual” where I am- California Bay Area. A “nice” restaurant it would be considerably more.

[–] icystar@lemmy.cif.su -4 points 12 hours ago

So it's hyperbole.

You're literally ignoring the restaurants that don't help you support your argument.

Shit is insanely overpriced, especially in the entitled and privileged area that you live. You don't need to lie about costs.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I'm not really sure what your point is, but we are a blended family, so yeah, there's a lot of us.

Sure, I could get $5 Biggie Bags at Wendy's for everyone for under $100, but if we're going out it's because we WANT to, not because we need to shovel the cheapest food we can find into our mouths. We got Chinese on Friday. After tip it was a little over $100, and we didn't even have all the kids with us. Which is why we only go out once or twice a month. The rest of the time, were cooking at home, or in case of emergencies, order $40 worth of pizza.

[–] icystar@lemmy.cif.su -1 points 11 hours ago

Ok well, the point was that you can eat at a restaurant as a family for under $100.

[–] TammyTobacco@sh.itjust.works 2 points 16 hours ago

Exactly, eating out is crazy expensive compared to making your own food. I like to have a few bigger dishes with easy meals to fill in the gaps, and rarely eat out so I can save that money.