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And it's a big reason for the distrust some women feel (reddthat.com)
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[–] snugglesthefalse@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Tbh this popped up on my main page so I haven't seen any rules and don't make a point of checking the instance.

[–] LordKitsuna@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

People forget this about lemmy. Instances are federated and your threads could randomly pop up on the Main feed of any instance, it's not like reddit where it's more clearly separated. In most cases the person likely has no idea that they are on an instance that is supposed to be woman only.

If you want to be exclusive then make sure to defederate your instance so it's fully isolated

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

And now that you know the rule you continue posting.

And you wonder why women have issues trusting men.

[–] snugglesthefalse@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I've made one comment pointing out that a lot of people aren't wandering in with knowledge of this rule, two now but that's besides the point. You're pursuing this in a way that's confrontational and while I understand it might be frustrating that everyone's stepping on the rule it's also not a good way to get people to listen. I could say more but I was fully intending on leaving.

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 1 points 1 day ago

And again you keep showering your pearls of wisdom where you've been told multiple times they're not welcome like you think this is a porn film money shot.

How hard is it to follow: "Women only" has two fucking words you cretin!