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[โ€“] Honytawk@feddit.nl 13 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Long term virginity is sort of proof that you aren't likeable enough for someone to have sex with you.

It can be a bit of a downer when you realize that.

So no, it is important. But it is also important to not give up.

Took me til my thirties, and it gave me a confidence boost once it happened. Had to work on myself to make it happen.

[โ€“] untorquer@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

Yuuuuup. Not letting your sex drive prevent you from seeing someone as the person they are is a big deal too.