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The problem isn't trauma dumping in and of itself. The problem is if trauma dumping is all that you do.
And respecting boundaries, and other people's bandwidth too.
Yeah, if someone only ever comes around with misery and sadness, it is very difficult to find their company enjoyable. It can also cause someone to feel used if they aren't receptive to listening to others' struggles. Frankly, if it is that bad, recommending they seek therapy is probably the most helpful thing you could do for them.
Definitely. I’m happy to lend an ear, but there are some issues I’m just straight up not qualified to help with.