So many nice men in the world, and then some bad ones did this.
this post was submitted on 02 Sep 2025
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Aside from the astounding negligence of the app team, it wouldn't have been necessary if we had strong communities and supports for people in the first place. No one should be worried about their safety on a date.
Yeah, there are whisper networks but a lot of them are gatekeepy and victim blamey, sadly.
That's one of the worse things about speaking out, people think it's a lie or an exaggeration. Or it gets out, and blowback from that can be worse than the incident.
Yup, we know that all too well.
That's a really interesting point