‘I just assumed it would happen’: the unspoken grief of childless men (www.theguardian.com)

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There is very little research into men who have not had children, although that is beginning to change. Research by Dr Robin Hadley has found that 25% of men over 42 do not have children – 5% more than women of the same age group.

Half of the men who are not fathers but wanted to be describe a huge grief and isolation from society. Almost 40% have experienced depression and a quarter feel a deep anger.

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[-] Emperor@feddit.uk 10 points 1 year ago

It is a tough subject. There are many regrets over paths never taken, but this feels like a meta-regret as most roads felt like they led to children. I am.old enough now that I am resigned to it never happening and while I can shrug off minor regrets, this still hurts.

[-] Tweak@feddit.uk 4 points 1 year ago

You could always go the route of that guy who fathered chess champions and put an ad in the paper.

[-] Emperor@feddit.uk 4 points 1 year ago

Now there's a plan.

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