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I’ve been seeing this more and more in comments, and it’s got me wondering just how big this issue really is. A lot of people feel trapped in apps like Discord, WhatsApp, and Instagram, but can’t get their friends to leave.

It’s really annoying when you suggest trying something new, whether it’s a different app or just not using these platforms so much but sometimes it can feel like no one wants to go first.

So I’m curious, what apps do you feel most trapped in? And have you tried convincing your friends to leave them? What happened? Is it an issue for you, or are you just going along with the flow?

Looking forward to hearing if this is as common as it feels!

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[–] Ulrich@feddit.org 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

You can do the exact same thing with any of hundreds of different messaging apps. The only advantage is that they're using the same messaging app, because it comes installed by default, you can't remove it, and they don't allow you to replace SMS with anything else. If you use an Android phone, it most likely comes with Google Messages pre-installed, which does the exact same thing.

In other words, it's nothing to do with "user experience" and everything to do with being in a particular ecosystem.

[–] Endymion_Mallorn@kbin.melroy.org 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

On Android, I prefer QKSMS, actually.

[–] Ulrich@feddit.org 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Cool. My spare OS is Archbang.