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[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 20 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

The good ones apologize and follow the rules.

This. This right here. This self-centred twat has broken the rules twice, now, and at the very least the second time was doing so knowingly.

He thinks he's one of the "good ones".

In reality he's one of the ones we have to watch out for.

As for "safe spaces", holy fucking shit, this guy is not only not one of the good guys, he's clearly well into the MRA arena. I'd guess from the attitude either MGTOW or possibly straight-up incel. Doesn't matter where in MRA he is, though, he's toxic AAF.

[–] hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 2 weeks ago

Anyone claiming to have been turned into a misogynist in response to minor push back was a misogynist all along. Its a mask.

I had him figured from his first message alone. Proud of myself for that!

[–] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 4 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

It's not loading for me, so I'm going to assume it's a woman swearing like a sailor about the sheer irrationality of the "logical sex"?

[–] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Haha it's a woman reading out women's reasons for choosing the bear.

[–] hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 weeks ago

I want to pet the bear because it is fluffy. I will forever be disappointed that bears do not like being pet.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

if I get my request for a peertube account granted, I can upload the clip to that channel and share it

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

OK, I managed to upload the video here: https://exquisite.tube/w/5FYhpk1NQJpMDrfAzPz98m

EDIT: I get a 401 when I go there and see a message about being auto-blacklisted and requiring a moderator's approval ... oops

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

looks like the moderator approved it and I have access to it now!! Are you able to access and watch it?

https://exquisite.tube/w/5FYhpk1NQJpMDrfAzPz98m

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 2 points 2 weeks ago

Got it!

Some of those are heart-wrenching because you know there's a true story behind it. 😢