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Hello.

So, I’m kind of a late bloomer trans dude. Though I was 15 when I started to experience dysphoria and such, I spent all of highschool in “girlmode” and graduated a woman.

I used to, as a nickname even IRL, go by my former online name “Angelica”. However, Angelica isn’t a very masculine name and you won’t get very “manly” vibes from it. I’m looking for stuff maybe similar to Angelica or fit my vibe of “cutesy”, “femboy”, etc. Maybe names that symbolize kindness or good/light.

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[–] Postmortal_Pop@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago

This is actually something I've run into in my day to day. I changed my full name when I got married because I've hated my name for my whole life. My old name was very cute and very white, and I frequently got questions about the beloved children's show I was named after. It made being a working adult pretty hard. What I didn't expect was that my new name is heavily assumed to be Latino. I was going for the Italian poet but a few people have been confused to find an absolute honky in the interview.